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Perhaps I need to gather more friends .....hmmmm ...perhaps NOT!
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Perhaps Some Memebers Think If They Have Scores Of Cyber Friends- Somehow This Will Magically Get Them LAID???
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Mixed ambitions and intentions - or none. Some people never left the evolutionary stage of "hunters and gatherers" - the are buddie-hunters. Or infected by the curse of collecting things - friends as surrogate for plush toys, shoes or mushrooms. Quantities count more than qualities - but sometimes vice versa. Some people get further access to galeries or harvest points by proposing/accepting the "friendship" feature - so there is indeed a maybe advantage going along with it. Either can be excluded the psychological dimension of social windowshopping and -performance could be still alive. Sitting alone at the table means, you are noone, who is worth to be known. The posing on top of a solide mass of "friends" lends you a first impression of fluid trustworthiness. Some people even seem to read it as a symbol of being "real" or "fake" - but as fakes have usually many friends, the gift of their need of affection is vain.
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I envy you, Mister. I know you sub slightly but the thing I find wonderful and enviable is that you have need of only one friend. To never be lonely requires a wonderful subject of love, but it als requires a wonderful lover who can trust and feel such complete devotion. I hope you will excuse a salute and bow. You have the strenght and understanding of self worth I have always wished for.
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