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001wickedwolf 63F  
8 posts
3/23/2017 9:32 am
Is this how we really want to represent ourselves?

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Softlysexy 58F

3/23/2017 11:24 am

Well said.. I have been away from the lifestyle and this site for a long time. My return brought me a bit of a shock. I think part of it stems from the world of immediate gratification we now live in, even those of more advanced years have become accustomed to getting what they want right now. Unfortunately this run and gun mind set leaves little opportunity to consider what we really want.

Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.
Rumi


001wickedwolf replies on 3/23/2017 11:36 am:
I certainly have sympathy with the shock! I really love the old guard! Welcome back to the lifestyle.

slaveforyou365 63M  
4488 posts
3/23/2017 12:06 pm



Slave rick


001wickedwolf replies on 3/23/2017 3:05 pm:
Thank you for the applause!!

brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
3/23/2017 12:32 pm

To Me This Site Is Not eHarmony Of Course- But I've Only Ever Been Interested In Making Adult Friends Here. Never Been Much For Quick One Time Fling Stranger Sex Like So Many Guys Seem To Be Into...


001wickedwolf replies on 3/23/2017 3:08 pm:
Right on! I am married and my husband is fully supportive of my activity here and in my BDSM community. He attends events with me and me friends and he adore each other. I am not looking for e-harmony either, but I would love to find a little sanity and some folks who would like to get to know each other as friends before jumping into the dark side. I don't speak for anyone except myself, but if I wouldn't spend the afternoon sitting here around my pool with a person, I am not going to play with them either.

Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
3/23/2017 12:49 pm

Sensible point well made. In the swinger world and in BDSM, respect is surely a key prerequisite. There's a German phrase I rather like: alles kann, nicht muss. It means everything is possible but nothing is demanded.

The trouble, methinks, is the internet. It allows anybody with curiosity or simple lust access to the milieu of BDSM without any insight about it (men and women alike). Also, it is leading to an early sexualisation of the young and, one is led to believe, a warping of what they think is normal, acceptable sexual behaviour through easy access to porn of all shades (and certainly not grey!).


001wickedwolf replies on 3/23/2017 3:12 pm:
Very good points. I have to agree. The anonymity of the internet must have something to do with it. I am happy in my community but it would be lovely to meet other kinksters whether or not there was ever play involved. And the folks to whom I am referring are people I would NEVER go out alone to meet under any circumstances.

TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
3/23/2017 4:45 pm

That's odd; there's someone who has just started a blog who not only writes just like you but could be mistaken for your twin!

Coincidence? Or what?


001wickedwolf replies on 3/23/2017 5:21 pm:
Here you go..... I have copied this from my profile in nice big letters so everyone can see how clear I am about my so-called "twin."

APPARENTLY I AM NOT CLEAR ENOUGH. I HAVE 2 PROFILES. THEY ARE BOTH ME. THE FIRST ACCOUNT WAS HACKED AND THE WEB PEOPLE HERE ASKED ME TO MAKE ANOTHER ONE SO THAT I CAN STAY IN TOUCH WITH MY FRIENDS IF IT HAPPENS AGAIN. ANY QUESTIONS SHOULD BE DIRECTED TO THE WEBSITE PEOPLE AS I AM ONLY DOING AS THEY SUGGESTED AND NOT TO ME AS IF I AM PLAYING SOME KIND OF GAME. THIS IS AS UP-FRONT AS I KNOW HOW TO BE ABOUT IT. (sorry about the shouting, people just haven't seemed to notice)

Got it now?

DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
3/23/2017 5:22 pm

I put my two cents in on your other profile blog.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


001wickedwolf replies on 3/23/2017 5:24 pm:
This is copied and pasted from my profile which is the same one as here.

APPARENTLY I AM NOT CLEAR ENOUGH. I HAVE 2 PROFILES. THEY ARE BOTH ME. THE FIRST ACCOUNT WAS HACKED AND THE WEB PEOPLE HERE ASKED ME TO MAKE ANOTHER ONE SO THAT I CAN STAY IN TOUCH WITH MY FRIENDS IF IT HAPPENS AGAIN. ANY QUESTIONS SHOULD BE DIRECTED TO THE WEBSITE PEOPLE AS I AM ONLY DOING AS THEY SUGGESTED AND NOT TO ME AS IF I AM PLAYING SOME KIND OF GAME. THIS IS AS UP-FRONT AS I KNOW HOW TO BE ABOUT IT. (sorry about the shouting, people just haven't seemed to notice)

If anyone were to ACTUALLY read my profile, there wouldn't be any questions, but that just isn't going to happen and people will be making insinuations and looking like idiots.

Got it?

DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
3/23/2017 7:07 pm

    Quoting DancingDom:
    I put my two cents in on your other profile blog.
I was not criticizing you for having two blogs. Just saying I commented on the other profile blog. I know several folks have multiple accounts. You did not hide that fact nor did you use it for spurious reasons.

As far as reading profiles go, I am no longer a silver or gold member, so I can't read profiles.

Not surprised your profile was hacked. Mine was about 9 years ago and actually saw it being used in a chat room acting like a complete ass. Alt did nothing about it. so I laid low for a few months, at the time I was a paid member and messaged everyone I knew about the impersonator. That person either got bored or alt finally reacted to the problem.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


001wickedwolf replies on 3/24/2017 7:19 am:
Whoever hacked my account posted some pictures of females in sex acts, saying they were me and telling people I would do whatever they liked in the pictures and so on. I was receiving messages describing the most awful things people want to do or see done to me and I was floored.

TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
3/24/2017 2:03 am

I owe you an apology. I was aiming for a tongue-in-cheek flippancy which clearly failed to come across.I certainly had not intended to insinuate anything.

As I wrote in my blog only yesterday. I welcome bloggers, especially good writers with something worth reading to say.

Mea Culpa


001wickedwolf replies on 3/24/2017 7:23 am:
It could also be that I am a bit touchy because so many people who don't read profiles send me messages accusing me of trying to run some scam or other or being deceitful in other ways. It gets old. I am now used to having the two profiles and make every effort to let people know before they assume, but if people can't or don't read either profile (they are identical) they can't be stopped. I love the ones who threaten to "expose my scams." Expose what scams and to whom?


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