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Will you show my wife/gf/husband/bf how to …
2/12/2012 7:12 pm |
I have no problem taking time out to show a woman/man a few things their partner has expressed an interest in – often this approach gives them the confidence they need to try. I said try, I did not say to have all your dreams come true the first time! You have to empathize with them a bit, imagine having you staring back with all these fantasies and expectations: no one should be set up to fail. I can only relate to such suggestions in context of my own relationship: me and my partners have always talked about anything and everything so conversations on sexual experimentation were common. This is not the case with everyone else but it is important for people in the relationship to be able to at least share something’s and still feel human. Now guys, I know you get tired of reading blogs, ladies telling you what to do and what not to do but I am seriously trying to help you out here: help me help you. I have a few suggestions that would work when bringing up the kink subject with a partner that might otherwise not be: 1. No matter what your fetish or desire is the first rule of thumb is: once you say it out loud there is no taking it back. You had better be sitting there looking at the person you are about to tell this too and be certain they can handle it – best to hold back and go for balloon animal fetish and not hit them with the three ring circus version of your desires, no matter how bad and hard you want it. 2. When and where will make or break the chances of it ever happening: • whilst naked in bed, after congress or during, is not really a good time. Some women will agree to anything, even marriage, and regret it in the morning or you might find her coming back in from the kitchen with the electric mixer with her own ideas. • In public and or with friends/family around: don’t pick up the drum stick at the bbq and say you have always wanted to know what it would be like… even if you manage to laugh it off in public she will always be looking at you from the corner of her eye wondering. 3. Do not show her a porn video! I get it, there is a vid out there that just captured what it is you want to happen. She will only see the size two blond airbrushed fake tit woman in latex and in some sort of automatic pre conditioning manner dismiss the whole thing as impossible and you are and will be forever the man that doesn’t find her sexy. 4. If your partner is all about sex with the lights off and in the missionary position chances are she not about to do a gangbang with the local college football team. Do not invite guys over thinking it will happen, even IF she said it would be fun: alcohol, drugs consumption should be taken under consideration to any proclamation of interest. 5. Another woman cannot talk your woman into doing it! Sorry but it doesn’t work that way, if she is not into fur pie, no matter what I say won’t make her want too – and she will just hate you for it not me! 6. For Valentine ’s Day or anniversary: do not buy her a strap on and some butt butter. She will not know what to do with it and she will only ever remember this gift for the rest of your relationship. Au contraire to what family guy says: diamonds do not equal her having to do shit for you. 7. You want her to be more dominant in bed? Spanking your own ass is not the way to go about it, nor is acting out on her what you want done to you – she will only wonder why it is you need her to do it because you seem to be doing a fine job on your own. Here are some boobies for reading this far. Next I will try and help give you some ideas of how to bring it up – or maybe other bloggers will be so inclined.  not a pyx picture!
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 2/12/2012 11:04 pm |
Wow. You said that perfectly... Those really are some boobies!
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2/12/2012 11:28 pm |
I always enjoy your blog but the breasts were a nice treat at the end, but just so we are clear having you cum over for 3 way needs to be discussed with her first hhehe. I wouldnt feel right about that anyway. well without discussing it with her anyway. Honesty is my best friend 
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 2/13/2012 2:13 pm |
I heard there were some titties on the loose over here....oh! There they are! Hi titties! "In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act." ---George Orwell
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2/20/2012 10:54 am |
While his wife was away, a cross dressing latex dressing masochistic friend of mine left his cock cage under the bed accidentally (or perhaps on purpose). She was initially not over the moon, classic understatement, but after he revealed the extent of his self-gratification and she'd sobbed her heart out for about a week things moved forward. She now sets about him with a cane, attends munches and workshops to find out how to hurt him more effectively and so on. Whether or not this approach was the best one, I have no idea particularly as his wife is French.
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