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Change means moving forward.
1/1/2007 9:30 am Last Read: |
I've been away for a while, and I've missed you all. It's been an interesting time. This has not been my healthiest winter, but mostly I've been struggling through realizing that my relationship with Sir D just isn't coming back. I miss him terribly, I worry about him some times, and I hope that we can continue to be friends. However, there have been good changes too! In late September, I had one of those startling "who threw the world in the dryer?!" moments. I logged on to the Alt messenger. I was frankly bored and figured I'd either have some interesting conversation or I'd have fun playing with the idiots. I got an IM from a random guy, who opened with asking me about my tag line "Finding my wings." He got my usual honest response, but didn't give me the usual response of silence and then changing the subject. Instead, he responded with "Oh how sweet!" This intrigued me! For over an hour we talk about everything from our philosophies of BDSM to experiences and what we liked. In that tiny little picture, I caught something familiar, but promptly dismissed it. It would be far too much of a coincidence .... Finally we got around to introductions. "Hi, I'm Nae!" "Hello, I'm 'T'." At this point I needed to pick my jaw up off the ground, so I just crawled under my desk for a moment.  I was now rather sure that this was the friend I'd thought of when I looked at the tiny picture. I asked a quick question which caused T to respond that obviously we knew each other. I think he figured it out just as I hit enter to give him my full first name, which is how he knew me. Fortunately, things didn't become awkward after that little revelation.So the upside of this is that I am now having lots of fun playing with T. I have the advantage of someone I've done lots of volunteer work with, that I trusted before this ever came up, and he's just plain fun.  There's lots more, but I need to get some other things done today! I'm glad to be back, horribly behind on everyone's blogs, and everyone have a Happy New Year! |
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1/2/2007 1:34 am |
What happy news! You certainly give me hope that anything can happen. Hope the new year brings you continued fun.
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1/4/2007 7:55 pm |
This is a fun little story! Ive been hearing more about things like this. Kink it seems is everywhere, and it sometimes seems, nearly "everybody". Glad to know this interesting new "thing" is going on in your life. Hope we see both of you some "out and about". Dan
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