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8/16/2006 10:10 pm Last Read: |
I am a Collared and a Husband. They are who I am, and I would have it no other way. And generally they coexist in harmony with each other. My duties as a Husband are to Love my Wife, protect her from harm, and take care of her needs in all ways. Pretty much the same as my subly duties, with a hefty dose of absolute obedience. There are times however when the two do not get along so well. I saw an episode of Seifeld which dealt with the idea of a spose's right to tend to their spouse before others do. In this case it was a sneeze, and what the proper protocal is if a man is in the company of a married couple and the wife sneezes. Does the Husband get the right of First bless you, and if so, how long a silence does the third party need to endure before they are allowed to say bless you. Being a sub adds another element to the situation, because your Mistresses needs supercede all else, so you have to swallow your pride and figure that at least Mistress was taken care of. You don't have to like it though. Well, we were at a munch the other night, and Mistress was introduced to another man. He kissed her hand(which rankled me a bit), and then went to kiss her on the lips. Thankfully, she artfully dodged this. If not, the subs reaction of Mistress will handle it would have run full bore into the husbandly reaction of grabbing the guy by the throat, and who knows which impulse would have won. P.s I remembered this after listening to Bad Bad Leroy Brown, where the toughest guy on the block gets his ass handed to him by a jealous husband. |
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