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An Email I received...
6/22/2007 6:49 pm Last Read: |
I received an email from someone on this site who actually understood what I was looking for. Too bad he is so far. His email was definitely different from all of those, "I want you to do me with that thing" emails I usually get. I have reposted his email, with his permission, however I omitted his name as per his request. "Until a recent experience I had always considered myself to be dom. I recently was made aware of the fact that I enjoy being a sub and quite frankly it was one of the most hottest moments ever! I find myself fantasizing daily about being someone's sub. However for me, it has to be more than sex. I need a connection outside of the bedroom. So there needs to be some compatibility on a intellectual and emotional level. I am very masculine on the outside, I don't think anyone would ever guess I have these desires. This is somewhat difficult for me to accept but I am quickly realizing there are some strong desires. I have never had a bi experience but the thought of giving up control and having a domme command me to do things I have never done excites me tremendously. Therefore, as difficult as it is to admit, the thought of being told to get on my knees and being ordered to please another man is a very hot thought. I know distance is an issue and I understand how you feel. I'm not expecting you or asking you to make an exception. Perhaps then, as a compromise we can chat from time to time and I would at least have someone to share some of my fantasies with." Author Anonymous I thanked him for his email and told him that I was completely impressed by it. A lesson for other men, don't send a HEY DO ME email, it won't get you anywhere. |
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6/22/2007 9:08 pm |
I certainly know how that person feels. I have had that same thought for a long time. My biggest fear that stops me from acting out the fantasy is that I am afraid of disease. I know you can use protection but that would take away the idea of the full experience. I see you are in Staten Island. I go there all the time to shop, get a massage and pedicure etc.. Nice to see there are neighbors into the scene.. The beautifull reflection in the lake, effected only by stones cast in unacceptance.
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11/18/2007 8:19 pm |
There is nothing I can add the author said it all for me!!
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1/11/2008 7:31 am |
I couldn't have said it better myself in that email You received, LUVbiMENny! I too would love to be used by a caring Mistress for her pleasure. I also, however, resist the male contact for many of the same reasons as the author of this email, as well as the stigma it would place on me here in a community like Staten Island.
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3/12/2008 8:40 pm |
sad to see no more blog posts here--you're my hope that there are normal, strap-on loving women in the NYC area who like manly bi-guys! 
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3/21/2008 9:13 pm |
hopeful here as well...hint, hint 
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