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Deep Throat Help
5/15/2007 12:20 pm Last Read: |
I encountered a thread in a group where a woman asked for advice on how to learn to deep throat. You'll usually hear a few answers on this, but I compiled mine, off-the-cuff, in response to the post. I've received some good feedback on it so I've decided to include it in my blog. Feel free to comment as you wish: ================================================ It is about practice, certainly. But some are more quickly inclined to be successful than others - just the way it is. So be prepared to be patient. *Smile* If the cock in your life is informed and willing to be patient, great. However, I would suggest finding a toy cock - jelly preferred in that it's more yielding to bends and tight confines - that is of cock size or just under. The length is what we're more worried about at first, not the girth. Some exercises to stretch your jaws/mouth a bit before you start is a good idea. Opening your mouth as wide as possible and holding it for a count of three then relaxing and repeating a good 5-6 times is a great start. From there, practice extending your tongue as far as possible. Yes, the tip should stick out from your mouth. Once out there concentrate on the BACK of your tongue - the part where your mouth starts to curve downward into your throat. Focus on trying to flatten and lower that part of your tongue. Once you've become somewhat conscious of that you're ready for the prop. *Wink* Open, extend, flatten the back of your tongue, and slowly slide the head of the (toy) cock along your tongue to the back of your throat. When it gets close to the back of your mouth take a partial breath (or a whole breath and exhale half), then press it fully to the back. What's important here is to react when you feel a gag start. When the gag starts, immediately swallow. Yes, swallow around that cock - WHILE still pressing it. Swallow, swallow, swallow and, if your throat is capable or practiced enough it will press into your throat. Then pull it out. Don't be discouraged if it won't seem to go or if the gag is tough to get past. Practice. Practice and more practice will eventually make this work. Follow the procedure above and you'll get it - eventually, if not immediately. *Grin* The above may seem a bit simple, but it is the basics that work. I've helped a number of women remotely over the years in achieving this. It CAN be done. I would be happy to answer any other questions or more directly help someone as I have others in the past. Just contact me here. I pay so that standard members can send me mail without it counting against their daily limit. Good luck. If it's something you REALLY want, don't give up. Even find help. You've made some of that first step - congratulations! ============================================ Read My Blog: CentralILMan. Find Me as DeliberateHand. |
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 7/30/2007 7:48 am |
All of that is true, certainly when it comes to suppressingthe gag reflex, but i've found that a certain amount of enthusuasm, or love of the craft is necessary too. Ya gotta really WANT it. Of course, i do.
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