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achingbuttimid 68F
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11/9/2015 11:23 am

Dear Doc, I can understand breaks in activity. Haven't been here myself for quite a long time. Hope you are well and that your inactivity was for only good things. I know, of course, it is probably inappropriate of me to go much beyond hello. There is that special understanding between doctors and patients in which personal inquires from patients are considered nosey at best and more likely, suspect. We hold our doctors in such high regard, they just seem to be the people who 'have it all together'. For that reason the really good ones can not only use their medical science to understand what is wrong with us but can bring their expertise in the medical arts to bear. I know that some of the personal questions asked are in order to help you better understand me so you can better help me. I'm too shy and embarrassed about some of my body and sexual problems to even bring them up. When I'm at the doctor I just try to zone out hoping it will end soon and hoping the doctor doesn't think I'm some kind of perve if I show any signs of inappropriate stimulation. Sometimes I wish the doc would just voice the observation an tell me what it means; tell me it is normal or tell me if it is not usual. And either way, add some additional observations and/or ask me some clarifying questions....that may or may generate their own reaction which would require additional follow up. Even for simple thins....if you feel I have excessive public hair, I wish you would tell me what you think about that.....that it is okay to keep it but for the medical exam it needs to be removed; or, tell me that it is more appropriate that I engage in better grooming, that as is it might affect my health and my sex life. Maybe you understand that when women show up shaved or waxed that it is like a neon sign shouting slut. If so, tell me that, or tell me that it is okay to get rid of the hair that I won't seem too slutty....besides, I need to be honest with you, right? so if I am ........then you need to know for health reasons. That's pretty much what I want to know about everything. I want your judgment of me, your informed medical opinion or even experience and informed playdoc opinion. Truth is I haven't had that many partners. I want to know if my labia are excessively large or if my clitoris is the biggest you've ever seen. Maybe I need insertions but that's for a reason related to how I tilt, how I am shaped. Could you test and explain that? Truth be told, I probably would like for your bi-nurse to be present so you may observe how I respond to her. There are very real physical manifestations that could help bring understanding to questionings about sexuality. that's where I need your help. I always thought it was only shrinks that dealt in these issues. It is good to know there is a gynecological specialist who can help with these issues. And if the truth is that I am not right, I need to know that. I anticipate being in
Boston next spring. Do you have any openings?



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