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Helping start a fetish.
6/11/2008 7:09 am |
Talking with a one-time submissive partner and current friend recently the topic turned back to our previous playtimes and how she felt about the scenes we shared. I was curious about her feelings and how my specific desire for using diapers as part of our play had affected her, if at all. I was quite surprised by what she had to say! I broached the subject one evening over coffee and she blushed a little bit but untucked her shirt and showed me the elastic waistband of the diaper she was wearing. I sputtered a bit in surprise because even though I wear them often I had no idea that SHE still did! And before you ask, she said blushing again, its far from dry. I regained my slight loss of composure and wiped the coffee from my goatee and asked when she started wearing diapers herself and she laughed and said Well, its your fault, but I never stopped after you made me start! I asked her to explain a bit more and she did. She told me, at first, she was utterly humiliated by wearing and wetting them. However humiliation was something she craved as a submissive both verbally and physically. As she became more aroused from the humiliation she sort of associated diapers as a tool to arouse her. She developed the diaper fetish from this association. She found herself starting to browse the aisle at the drugstores for adult diapers and finally bought a bag. She told me the embarrassment from that act alone led her to rush home and masturbate furiously before she ever even put one on! As she began wearing and wetting them she found not only arousal but a sense of comfort from having them on. She said she could not explain but I told her I knew what she meant. Sometimes diapers are a sexual desire and others they are something that relaxes me and makes me feel comfortable. They just feel like thay belong on my body. If you arent someone who wears them the closest thing I can relate it to is transvestism. Men who feel comfortable and relaxed and right in womens clothing. This may be an improper analogy and if so I apologize but its as close as I can get. At any rate, she said she slept in them most nights and wore them several days a week and actually thanked me for introducing her to them. She then smiled and said she was soaked and asked if Id change her, I grinned and gladly did so before our evening came to a crinkly end. |
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