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Sir 3M, Firstly, let me say how much i appreciate the lovely and mouth watering visual You've provided for for our perusal. These look like succulent and tasty morsels for those up to the challenge and could keep One or four busy for quite some time   .Your words, by this yearning lgs & cw, are true indeed. I though, like to think, humbly, that i fall into either when necessary. I've recently been referred to by One much wiser than myself as an "alpha submissive". i took great pride in this title.  i am an oldest sibling and in my duties as such had to at many times take up the charge and lead. As a result, i too was referred to as "bossy" and it also was not a compliment. It came very naturally to me and in my earlier years was a bit confusing as i also realized i had a deep and intense yearning to submit. It makes sense to me now that due to my "alpha" tendencies, only to One who was deemed worthy of following; as not all are. Like the Canadian Geese, i should be so lucky to find myself in a family that has a Divine and true Dominant leader and One that can suss out the talents, desires and capabilities within the familial unit and provide the proper guidance and training so that each may fulfill their true destiny. To be left out in the cold and not fulfilling one's destiny is a travesty within itself. Without such an esteemed guidance we will wither away and die; a precious life and potential wasted. I would go a step further and point out that as people; we, unfortunately, can behave like sheep. Not all that "look/act" like Dominants are and vice versa. i humbly believe it is up to us to free our minds, perspectives and ideologies from all that we've been told IS a thing and be open enough to explore and figure out for ourselves what a thing is to US. i thank You for Your wisdom and willingness to share Your thoughts and behaviors with the masses.i find that they are most excellent reference points if not directives. i suspect there are Dominants and submissives alike who could glean a thing or 8 from One as astute as Yourself! Quite sincerely, smg
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One of the topics of discussion of late has been the willfulness of a submissive with a dominant. I think that the question becomes whether the willfulness is intentional or unintentional- and whether or not it fits the responsibilities of the submissive. If a Dominant gives me tasks and I do them but require correction, that is not necessarily willful. On the other hand, if the intention is to disobey with the hope of correction, then that is just simply not submission or there is an underlying problem that the Dominate needs to examine. I am pleasantly impressed with the Youngun's dominant tendencies and his gentle delivery (after all that I have experienced)- and thus, my desire is to please him and enjoy him, while helping to expand his inexperienced horizons. I enjoy his honesty and sense of responsibility. While he may have some strong boundaries, it's my job to respect them while he is learning how to accept my affectionate nature and help me to feel comfortable by a more demonstrative nature. It's a fun dance as it plays out. If you met him on the street , you would not think he was Dominant in the least- but he is- he just needs the right place, time, person, to express it without fear of rejection or humiliation.
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To the bottom comment: Yes, and he was as surprised as hell when I did one thing because he said no woman ever did that to/for him. I smiled and said, it's a mandatory rule in my book- told to me over 5 years ago. One of the things that we have discussed is that we are both looking for someone we can trust- we have both been mindfucked pretty good at some point, and he expresses his insecurity very outwardly so i do what I can to help him relax and feel like he can just "take a few liberties" if he so desires. Like touching- as he told me, he doesn't know the boundaries- and I politely explained, the boundary is whatever you feel comfortable with. What I like about him is that he is a good lad- there is no malice. Just a really good sense of humor and a desire to do things beyond the bedroom- we are compatible with other activities as well as our exploration within BDSM. But again, for both of us, it gets down to trust and his desires, needs, want-to's are okay.
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