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7/23/2005 9:17 am Last Read: |
There is some something I simply don't Understand. Why is it thay men can be absolutely specific about what physical attributes turns them on and be taken seriously, nyt women can't? Or is it just me? I mean to say that in every "fantasy" forum I have ever been involved in, I have it clear that my "fantasy" man has a totally bald skull (shaved or natural)..that this aspect is the key to my fantasy. Yet still and all, I get replies/messages/responses that almost begin with "I'm not bald, bu..." Why? Why do they do this? "Tell me you dark desires" Some of my "older stories", and stories of others: Force-Sex/ Fantasy Stories |
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 7/31/2010 10:10 am |
"I'm not bald, bu..." My butt is bald, does that count  Sorry, I mean no disrespect. I know, sometimes it seems like people just can't read. I'm mostly bald on top, but not shaved. I am also old enough to be your daddy fantasy  Still, I thought I would say hello. Hope you don't mind.There! I feel a lot better now!
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8/1/2010 12:31 pm |
My boyfriend would ENJOY wayching!! "Tell me you dark desires" Some of my "older stories", and stories of others: Force-Sex/ Fantasy Stories
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8/4/2010 8:45 pm |
Men do get the same things. I find you interesting, provocative, desirable and I'm not bald - if I contact you and "fess up", at least I'm being honest. Hey, it's worth a shot!
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9/14/2010 11:09 pm |
It's just you. There is no such thing as "you're not allowed to..." only limiting thoughts. You don't need someone to "allow" you to be focused in your vision. Stay positive and don't get discouraged, be emboldened. Anyone can do anything they want, as long as they don't buy into the negativity of others. The way I see it, when you make a specific posting and still get replies from folks that don't fit, it just shows that a lot of people are not strong in their character, they are malleable and wishy-washy, and are trying to see if you are too. We all get pinged like that from the wishy washy. Bonus points for NOT being that way. Stick to your guns. I am impressed with the purity of your vision. Accept nothing less than totally bald skulls. I am a huge fan of your profile, your stories and postings. xxx respectfully, Dr._R
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9/15/2010 7:38 am |
It's just you. There is no such thing as "you're not allowed to..." only limiting thoughts. You don't need someone to "allow" you to be focused in your vision. Stay positive and don't get discouraged, be emboldened. Anyone can do anything they want, as long as they don't buy into the negativity of others. The way I see it, when you make a specific posting and still get replies from folks that don't fit, it just shows that a lot of people are not strong in their character, they are malleable and wishy-washy, and are trying to see if you are too. We all get pinged like that from the wishy washy. Bonus points for NOT being that way. Stick to your guns. I am impressed with the purity of your vision. Accept nothing less than totally bald skulls. I am a huge fan of your profile, your stories and postings. xxx respectfully, Dr._R "Tell me you dark desires" Some of my "older stories", and stories of others: Force-Sex/ Fantasy Stories
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2/6/2011 9:27 am |
Bald and live in KC. Next I'm in Chicago I'll look you up. ;^)
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4/27/2011 5:51 am |
Hope and because they like their hair: Like the fat lady or gay/bi guy that write me they hope they can be the exception. Or like the beggar on the street that see you and you made the mistake of seeing them as a human being. Even while you shake your head, say no and walk away they impose themselves upon you. Rude of them but they try to get their needs while ignoring yours. Or they could just like their hair  I hot listed you before I read your blog. Thought it might have been a type-o, bald for bold. Right now I love my hair to much. But you are right and it is okay for you to want what you want. Thank you for being clear on that. It really does help.
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4/27/2011 6:42 am |
Hope and because they like their hair: Like the fat lady or gay/bi guy that write me they hope they can be the exception. Or like the beggar on the street that see you and you made the mistake of seeing them as a human being. Even while you shake your head, say no and walk away they impose themselves upon you. Rude of them but they try to get their needs while ignoring yours. Or they could just like their hair I hot listed you before I read your blog. Thought it might have been a type-o, bald for bold. Right now I love my hair to much. But you are right and it is okay for you to want what you want. Thank you for being clear on that. It really does help.If you ever change your mind...  "Tell me you dark desires" Some of my "older stories", and stories of others: Force-Sex/ Fantasy Stories
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5/6/2011 10:39 am |
need2braped... Perhaps they are the sort that might write an ad like, "Will Shave Head (but only for right girl...)." ~wink~
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7/8/2011 3:08 pm |
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7/20/2011 10:48 am |
I take what people write down in their want list very seriously. We all have our likes and dislikes. I don't fit into anyones list of desires, which at this point in my life is just fine by me. Never lower your standards, otherwise you will be disappointed in what you accept.
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11/26/2011 7:30 am |
I think it is because they want to take charge of your fantasy in their terms, and just see you as a fuck toy to abuse. While you may be just the woman they feel they can abuse, analize, and work their fantasies out on while you are mercilessly bound, it is your fantasy so wait until you get the one guy that says I AM BALD OR SHAVEN AND WANT TO YOU IN EVERY HOLE UNTIL YOU ARE SORE AND BEGGING ME TO STOP. Don't settle for less. He will come and cum and cum.
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11/26/2011 8:21 am |
I think it is because they want to take charge of your fantasy in their terms, and just see you as a fuck toy to abuse. While you may be just the woman they feel they can abuse, analize, and work their fantasies out on while you are mercilessly bound, it is your fantasy so wait until you get the one guy that says I AM BALD OR SHAVEN AND WANT TO YOU IN EVERY HOLE UNTIL YOU ARE SORE AND BEGGING ME TO STOP. Don't settle for less. He will come and cum and cum. "Tell me you dark desires" Some of my "older stories", and stories of others: Force-Sex/ Fantasy Stories
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11/29/2011 11:18 pm |
Hi, thanks for coming and commenting, ego....I don't think it's about that, just a feeling that people are out there...lol....I'm not bald but.....lol....there are so many things people do and say that frustrates....I will elaborate later when I have more time....
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4/5/2012 7:49 pm |
It's because they are 1.) stupid, 2.) horny, and 3.) selfish ... thinking about themselves and not about you. Oh, and by the way, it's totally cool for women to have just as specific an idea of what they want to realize in their fantasies as do men. Personally, I think it would be so exciting to read a woman's fantasy and realize that I am the perfect fit as far as the man (or one of the men) in her fantasy is concerned, and then get with her and help her make her fantasy come true!
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5/18/2012 3:13 am |
Men who are horny are usually typing with one hand and don't read your profile properly. They do want to control you and ignore what your physical type is. Its good to stick to your guns so you can get what you want, but if you aren't finding the right type of man, you may have to meet men with hair to find the right kinky fellow. I didn't find what I wanted until I was willing to expand my type. I always had gone for women shorter than me, but when I met my partner through alt she was taller than me. At the time it was more about acting out our kinks together and the height issue didn't bother me. Neither of us planned to have a long term relationship. If I had met her through speed dating or socially I would have not dated her because her height put her outside what I had decided was my type. Life is often about compromise. Her height is one of the things I love about her. Where as before I would have said it was a No No. A well Spoken British man with dark desires 
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