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MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
10/25/2016 2:41 pm

I remember my mate craving spicy dorito's !

That passed but the insomina, for her, didn't but it was all worth it

I hope your red number day comes a lot sooner than later

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


InderioMinx 54F  
19798 posts
10/25/2016 5:47 pm

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Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


alt5250 61M
1283 posts
10/25/2016 7:08 pm

As I read this I just did my 5th year cancer free appt today. Luckily for me mine was only thyroid & I avoided chemo. I just had plain old surgery & a dose of radioactivity high enough they had to send me out a differnt door & bypass all the other folks.

I hope things get better sooner.


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
10/25/2016 8:58 pm

thank you for sharing this, it is hard to read, just imagine what yo go through. i also appreciate you sharing this. i had asked my dad when he went though chemo and radiation therapy, but he would not talk to me about it.
he had gone from having rich dark hair to being bald, and then having white hair that was straight come back, it was so odd to see it when he had dark wavey thick hair, and now this sparse hair, he lost loads of weight, not that he was ever overweight, sighs...it has been over twenty years, but it still smarts.

I hope you get better and keep on with your fight..thank you again for sharing htis..it it is good to read the honesty and day to day things of this ugly disease.

i hope you also know you are far far more than cancer..i hope you have friends and family who see you as whole..sometimes the illness for some, because the sole focus.

xo

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
10/25/2016 10:14 pm

My mother, brother, and sister all died of different forms of the disease. Took care of my mom for about the last year, up until she went into Hospice.
Still, I realize that I have no idea what it must be like to live with it.

You obviously have a lot in your favor. Including a good grasp on who and what you are, and what your illness is and is not.

I Wish for you healing with great speed and effectiveness.


“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
10/27/2016 4:50 am

Perhaps this is a true, easier said than done statement. Something easy for me to say, when, thank God, I don't have the dreaded disease. So excuse my being naive, but I would rather hear you told the stinking lie to fuckoff! And then hunkered down for a long protracted fight! Than that you accepted it.
JMO.


“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
10/27/2016 1:07 pm

First, I would like to apologize for using the expression, F'off. That was unnecessary and impolite to write on your blog.

I do respect your opinion. I realize too, that I do not know you and your situation well enough to be giving advice on this important topic.

I meant no disrespect, and only wish you well.


“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7020 posts
10/31/2016 1:23 pm

I love your attitude. You're a fighter, but you know your enemy, and, thanks to you, I now know him better too.

This spring my daughter-in-law contracted a particularly virulent form of intestinal cancer that was so new they didn't have a category for it. She's in her mid 50s at the height of a brilliant journalistic career. All that is on hold now. She fortunately has the full support of her husband and a galaxy of close friends and co-workers.

I have no idea how to understand and react to what she has to contend with daily: a rubber suit that is supposed to replace the function of her lymph nodes, in addition to the chemo, the knowledge that the way her cancer manifested itself curtailed her very active outdoors life and immediately cut years off of her life expectancy.

This is an enemy to humankind that strikes viciously and indiscriminately without warning... and gives no quarter.

You remind us that we don't have to stop being who we are to fight it.

Thank you.

namaste~

The Dreamcatcher__


Lust4Life2Day 73M

11/10/2016 12:36 pm

I survived stage 4 T Cell Lymphoma and a perforated Bowel--You will survive!!!


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
11/15/2016 7:06 am

Sending you loads of love and healing. You will beat this. You're amazing. I know it's not for everyone but have you considered listening to positive affirmations? Perhaps health related but also for things like thriving and success. If of interest I have particularly liked some from pinch me living on y ou t u be. I listened the health one for months but I've now moved onto positive affirmations for thriving as I am totally ignoring the bitch (my condition) xx



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