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Its all about me  

Osiris682

7/29/2010 11:30 pm
Too many times at sites like this we see profile after profile telling what we want, our hard limits, goals and all that good stuff.

But, rarely do I see anyone list what they have to offer to the other person. How they can become a value to them. And that's about as important as anything else I would think.

If you really want a relationship to last, you have to think of the other person as much as you think of yourself. You have to make yourself valuable to that person. So that a break up would mean he/she would lose a lot. And miss you.

If its only about him doing things for you, in time he will tire and get bored. Because nothing is coming back his way. People like to be cared about, thought of. Know that they matter in your life. And when they don't they lose the reason for being in a relationship.

Maybe freedom is best for some. If they don't have it inside them to care about the partner. Maybe they should be free ?

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