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jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
4/16/2015 12:47 am

wdg

\we all do things we regret later

You look fine in the pic

I hope the consequences are OK despite your misgivings...


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


quietroar 59F
9647 posts
4/16/2015 6:04 am

It depends on whether or not you and your friend decide to dwell on it or just move on/forward. I found humor in your note of the sweet nothin's whispered vs. the play that we enjoy- not even one hair pull can make all the difference.

It doesn't sound like you had a very good time.


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
4/16/2015 6:22 am

Next time you talk/meet, be direct and clear about your intentions. Tell him matter of factually it was like a fuck buddy deal for you. It was appreciated but it will not lead to an permanent relationship along the line he may desire. Tell him, he appreciate his friendship and thank him for sensing you needed a good roll in the hay. Tell him, if your so inclined, it may happen again as long as neither of you are involved with someone. But not to expect it will happen again. Don;t tell him you let your guard down. Let him think you were in control of the situation because you choose to get your fancy tickled.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


xntrick 59M
2927 posts
4/17/2015 11:33 pm

I guess that's why women just want random sex at times, no worries about how to behave around a close friend.


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
4/18/2015 2:45 pm

    Quoting  :

One never knows if you had a follow up. Your subsequent posting does indicate you were very direct. Suggesting a meet up when he was sick.....ew.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
4/28/2015 6:49 pm

Yes...

Let's say I like my fucking friends, wdg - all of them. I think we've learned that we can't or shouldn't. I advocate Un_Learning that lesson.
+++
Walk of Shame?


Suppose I said that I reject the notion and the implication that if a woman has sex (when, where, how, why, at what time and with whom she wants) that traditional society disapproves of, she 'should' feel guilty...or somehow lesser...orrr that it negatively changes the friendship from then on? It's simply untrue.

Another Un_Learning Task as Eye see it.
BD~
P

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace



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