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I met my Dom on a vanilla site over two years ago. If you hint you'd be surprised how many kinksters there are out there. Before him I dated four men from the same site. It was all good fun and an interesting journey. I would be careful with whom I met though so I had some chemistry with all of them but it was my Dom who swept me off my feet. In my opinion if it isn't there from the start I wouldn't bother seeing them again.
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Oh and turning them down I'd be always kind and polite. In your case I might say something along the lines of: 'It was great to meet. I had a good time and it was interesting to hear more about you. I have to be honest though unfortunately for me it wasn't exactly what I'm looking for. I've only just started dating so I'm still finding my feet. Hope it's ok that we'll leave it to that. You are a wonderful man and wish you all the best. I hope you find someone who deserves such a lovely person as you.'
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I suspect dating today involves a lot of people in situations like yours .... Trying differnt things outside the comfort zone or just differnt. I am sure you will find someone you want to get to know better.... 
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wdg I am sorry but I do not know what to suggest except , sometimes, amongst the dross, a real gem may appear! it can be very frustrating though ..... A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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5/1/2016 6:19 am |
I think your problem may stem from the fact that your looking to get back into a relationship so you don't have to date/so you can get off these sites. When in reality the majority of people treat these sites as a "bar"..someplace to pick someone up and see where it goes. Sure meeting all these guys for quick dates could work out...you could quickly dump/run if your not physically attracted to them.. But honestly I think you'd be better off getting to know someone via a few emails first.. why? men who think with their dicks are the ones that post things like " let's not waste each other's time"....they don't want to sit around and actually talk with you like a human being..they want to get laid. Exchanging emails ( and yes I'm very bi and have ALOT of experience with both sexes) for me is my test for a man. I literally ask him to tell me something about himself....( and no I'm not asking for detailed personal info here..just anything he'd like to share about himself). Alot of guys will get pissed/angry...some guys get suspicious ( like wtf does he want to know something about me)...some guys will reply with just a word or one sentence ( they immediately get the boot) I have to know someone before I play/date or sleep with someone. If they aren't willing to openly communicate with me through a few simple emails then they aren't worth my time. It really is that simple...every now and then you will find a guy that is willing to talk/wants to share himself with you
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We all tend to become jaded with any of the dating sites. I think just being yourself on whatever site you're on is the most Important. I, too, am on a vanilla site, at this point in my life, though, I need something a little darker. Who knows......
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Well, I was on the vanilla site more as my dominant self so I described myself as a strong woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to get it. I also said that I was looking to tame a strong man who would want to worships their woman  As a sub I would probably say something like that I was looking for a strong man. In your case I might even say that you have a powerful job but when the doors close after a long day you might want to let go in the hands of the right person... Would that work?
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