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Vanilla with Kinky Sprinkles
6/12/2009 12:41 pm |
Originally posted to my adultfriendfinder blog May 12, 2009. Vanilla sex. People write about it, they complain about it, they're tired of it. They don't define it. Based on what i've read, it means "the same ole thing." It refers to activities that become routinely regular, often regulated, and feel restricted. Vanilla is "two people having sex/making love" and one of them is bored. BSDM, "alternative activities," groups, public, threesomes, anything; can, over time be as limiting and lust-less as what the majority of people classify as "vanilla." It's not the lack of variety in positions, clothing/shoes, number of people, location, toys/props, orifice choice that make sex bland. Sex becomes or is boring when people are limited by what they think is possible to achieve WITHOUT those. Vanilla is delicious soft served, hard-packed or twisted. and ultra decadent when it's French. Sprinkles are festive and colorful; they aren't very tasty by themselves. |
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11/5/2009 2:36 pm |
I concur. If you're a lousy cook, adding a lot of spices won't make it into a gourmet meal.
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6/16/2009 7:53 pm |
Sir, i also find it interesting that people that think that their vanilla sex is boring don't recognize that They are, more than likely,the the cause of the boredom. Perhaps a little more conversation would spice things up. You always show great insight.
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6/16/2009 7:48 pm |
Nicely said! Sex that is all spice & no meat 'n' potatoes gets dull quickly. freak
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6/14/2009 4:17 pm |
With the right partner all the flavors are delicious. Now, there is a reason that Baskin Robbins has 31 flavors, not too many of us want the same thing every time. I do agree with the premise of your post.
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6/13/2009 9:28 am |
Please write to me I am VERY interested in making myself available to you. Regards, Michael
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