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12/27/2014 4:04 pm |
It's interesting to me how women, both vanilla and in the lifestyle, will discriminate against older men. Hard to put a finger on why but most don't wish to be with men much than 5-10 years older than themselves. Appearance? Performance concern? Lack of common ground? IDK but I know I put on a good playdate or scene. And I have a wide range of interests and can usually find some things in common to do or talk about. If the woman passes me by, that's her loss. I know who and what I am and I like fun and adventure and spanking....vbg. On the other hand, I tend to look for women older than 30 (and usually older than that with the children gone or independent). More settled in their vanilla life, maybe some experience in the lifestyle, maybe more tolerance and patience has developed and recognition that the Perfect One doesn't exist. Physical attraction doesn't hurt but compared to vanilla, it's not the end all or be all. Connecting on several levels is.
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12/28/2014 7:16 am |
Byrdie Several things I met a very young woman last summer. She worked in a nursing home, guess you'd call her a nursing aide...we chatted online for quite some time. she said she had some D/s experience online as a bratty sub...?. And she knew from the beginning I was a Dom. I can't remember if I asked her the extent of her submission but I got the feeling that 1) she didn't know all her lady parts very well and 2) her boyfriends and Dom didn't do much to help her along those lines. Can we say selflish? Anyway we met, she followed my commands, and in our play, I think she found out more about her sexuality than ever before but that and prolly my age scared her. I hope she finds/found what she was looking for...  Age is relative. Mick Jagger is 71, David Bowie is 67, Hugh Hefner is 88 (ok, skip Hugh) but to believe that sensuality and virility ends at a certain age is fooishness. In my work, I've seen obese men and women in 20's/30's and men and women in their 40's who look older. And undoubtedly men and women in the lifestyle would have more knowledge of their sexuality compared to most at the same age in vanilla. Youth is wasted on the young...ROFL. Badboy
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12/31/2014 6:28 am |
I like the old age and treachery. Guile you suppose? Well, I ignore the cutoffs because I AM the exception...lol. Seriously I don't lie about my age...may not disclose it depending on the situation and wait until we have a meet and greet. In vanilla, usually the age thing knocks me out of the box. If the vanilla woman knew what kind of an experience a Dom would deliver, I doubt that she would care. Obviously there has be to a bit of chemistry. A woman/sub may THINK she doesn't want to meet a sensual, experienced Dom but she won't know until she tries.
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