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Something New  

hopeful_sub

6/24/2009 6:11 pm

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7/9/2009 11:28 pm

The wife has decided that she wants to be dominated.

hm.

THAT'S a new concept. I have always been turned on by strong women. In my late teens I dated a few women in their 30's - they were always in charge. They were not always Dominatrix, but always in charge. I have never "topped" a woman. I am not sure where to start.
hopeful_sub
74 posts 

6/27/2009 10:53 pm

    Quoting Ms_Lyonese:
    NOt easy thing to do. One of the things you should know is what makes you tick before you try to figure out what makes someone else tick. Suggestion: Talk and discuss what she is interested in. Discuss fantasies that you and she might share as well as those she has on her own. Although not all are dominant we all have the ability to dominant. Have fun learning it is always an interesting ride and a great learning experience.
THANK YOU for your response. This is not easy at all, and has been a long road THIS far. She is very shy about sex but has recently been VERY open to new things. I don't want to PLUNGE into this with her, so the conversations have been very "surface" oriented. I really want her to enjoy it and continue her journey...

Ms_Lyonese
2420 posts 

6/25/2009 6:55 pm

NOt easy thing to do. One of the things you should know is what makes you tick before you try to figure out what makes someone else tick. Suggestion: Talk and discuss what she is interested in. Discuss fantasies that you and she might share as well as those she has on her own. Although not all are dominant we all have the ability to dominant. Have fun learning it is always an interesting ride and a great learning experience.

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