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buckard22 55M
41 posts
4/19/2015 8:31 pm

when in doubt slow down some more


lastguymn 56M

4/19/2015 8:47 pm

It doesn't sound like you threw all caution out the window, so I wouldn't be too hard yourself. In fact, it really sounds like you followed the most important safety considerations of keeping things public, staying out of his vehicle, and keeping aware of your surroundings.

Safe calls provide a worthy additional bit of peace of mind, but I find their value in providing protection from the types of monsters you've referenced to be very much overestimated. They are kind of like security cameras in that they might help catch a bad guy faster, but probably not fast enough to save you if he/she means to do you harm. Staying public, in daylight, listening to your inner voice, and keeping personal information private is the best insurance for staying safe, and it sounds like you covered all of those bases.


~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
4/19/2015 10:05 pm

sarah

At least you recognise your "error" and are reminding others....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


kittykitty1260 63F
15748 posts
4/20/2015 3:43 am

You know you got my number, use it anytime!

“Who says life is fair, where is that written?”
― William Goldman, The Princess Bride


i_am_cyn 103F
1941 posts
4/20/2015 4:49 am

Good reminder for all. It's a balancing act, being careful without being paranoid. Safe call aside, you did a really good job of being careful.

Really good post .....cyn


kalbi1231 70M

4/20/2015 7:56 am

Glad to hear everything did work out. I think the majority of people here are on the up and up but we all need to be cognizant of those that are here for nefarious reasons. All it takes is one time but in your case, lesson learned and passed down.


benoite 104F
6238 posts
4/20/2015 2:08 pm

In autumn 2007 I met Zofenhalter .
That was about half a year before I knew G-Dom and all of this was very new to me.
One of the very first BDSM_experiences of my life were with him and I would have bet that he was perfectly okay.
In 2009 he killed his wife --- he shot her while she sat in a bath tub in their own bathroom
and he tried to kill a man of a couple they had had contact with for quite while
because he had become jealous.
After that he killed himself.
His profile is still online almost 6 years after his death though I reported his death to the ALT-monkeys.
They just don't care.
B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


TheBargee 68M
16314 posts
4/20/2015 5:08 pm

my god! Such a catalogue of carnage! Damn! Now I'm scared to go out!

Sarah, I feel sure your instincts will see you right. I do hope that this turns out deliciously well for you.

one step at a time but let pleasure be the final destination.


InderioMinx 54F  
19798 posts
4/20/2015 5:32 pm

You didn't want to "bother" anyone? Honey, seriously... to those of us who care about you and I am sure there are many, it would not be a bother.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


FrankEsq 66M  
14 posts
4/23/2015 8:49 pm

Being careful and cautious is prudent. There are predators lurking in the shadows - as you indicated in your blog.
Good luck and take care.


MyLoveandPet 55M/48F
10164 posts
4/28/2015 8:33 am

I'm glad you didn't have any trouble and I'm also glad that you posted this and that it has hit the main page.

You never know who the next alt/craig's list killer will turn out to be but you better be alert because they are lurking somewhere.

ML.

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