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BDSM & penetration poll . . .  

butterfIy

11/1/2008 3:26 am
I am curious as to the entwining of BDSM and penetration for people involved in the lifestyle and their views.

When I say sex I am purely referring to penetration.

Please state what is typical for Y/you personally.
I never include penetration during scening.
I sometimes include penetration during scening.
I always include penetration during scening.
I include penetration only with lifestyle partner/s.
I include penetration under negotiated limits with scene partner/s.
I include penetration only with toys during scening wth lifestyle partner/s.
I include penetration only with toys with scene partner/s.
Other . . . please clarify.


_brie_
20126 posts 

11/1/2008 6:20 am

How is it that for every poll I'm always in the Other category? Before I committed to a relationship I played without sex or penetration because my partners were casual friends. Within the context of a relationship everything changes.

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skorpius18
905 posts

11/1/2008 10:46 am

Always depends on with Whom i'm playing. If it is not Someone i consider a Lover, i'll accept penetration with toys, and i would not expect pentrating Her. If it is with a Lover, then no holds barred.

stirpike
318 posts 

11/1/2008 3:55 pm

see . i agree with both the above. Who i am playing with, where the relationship is. What kind of relationship. All the variables come into...um.... play. giggle....see ya soon!

happy-e
53 posts 

11/2/2008 10:07 am

Different strokes for different folks

bikerrpm
78 posts 

11/4/2008 9:54 am

as a bi male bottom,if i'am asked if peretration is ok,my answer would always be PLEASE PLEASE,toys ,cock,finger,strap on,ect.
i love the feeling on being screwed,fucked ect.
it all makes me feel VERY submissive!

alixis69
14 posts 

11/5/2008 2:46 pm

As said above it depends on a lot of different variables like if you are in a relationship with that person. Also I have many favorite scenes that I would like to try that do not involve penetration, mainly wearing a chastity device. So it also has to go along with the scene that you are playing too, however, after the scene there can be penetration, if your partner agrees to it.

Magnetics_dancer
4457 posts

11/16/2008 7:32 am

Yeah...what brie says! However, I must say that I tend not to scene as often with those people I don't feel comfortable in the penetration category with...I'm highly sexual and this becomes part of it for me...if the connection isn't deep enough for penetration (no pun intended)...it's not likely I will submit well to them. HOWEVER, when switching...and I'm Dommeing...it's much more rare for penetration to occur. That becomes a bit of a special treat...

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