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Fantasy vs. Reality
4/9/2009 3:43 am |
What do you fantasize about that you are afraid to do in reality for any reason? | ||
4/9/2009 6:12 am |
There are some fantasies that people have that I sincerely hope they are afraid to do in real life. Many times fantasy and reality don't match. What was great as a fantasy can lead to injury or worse as reality. "Unreal" and proud of it!
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4/11/2009 6:18 am |
This girl fantasizes about finding another true Master. One who is not only honest in all He says but actually carries out the words He speaks. This task is something i've now learned to be afraid of, too many are dishonest and fake. It seems to be just a game to them or a passing of time until another comes along. "Its better to be hated for what you are, than to be loved for what your not!" Marilyn Monroe
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 4/17/2009 4:05 am |
i agree with both free625 and obedient_slave2. Besides the safety issue, some fantasies are meant to just remain fantasies. You might not enjoy them at all in reality. And regarding those who are fake & dishonest so-called Doms, yes there are tons of them. After all, you need numerous, numerous qualities to assume the role of a Real Dom and it is a huge responsibility. There is no way all these listings belong to true doms. No way. And there is a lot of disappointment that every submissive will have to face when looking for a dom. But..do you have any choice? can you just ignore your submissiveness? i can't... So far, i have never had any fantasy that i would be afraid to turn into reality.
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4/19/2009 4:19 pm |
Karyelynn4u, i know that shame is shame and you don't enjoy it. But feeling "shame" does not make the fantasy or the desire less powerful. It does, however, make it much less enjoyable. Can you try to give a face to the voice in you, which says "good girls don't"? if you can, then i'd suggest you try - try - to say to yourself: and who is this voice and the person behind it? who is he/she to dictate me what i should enjoy, and how i should enjoy my sex life, *as long as my pleasure is not hurting anyone*? is this person so perfect? maybe that very person is a...pedophile. Isn't that possible? oh it is. You need to start realizing that this voice inside you that makes you feel shame, is just a succession of old taboos which, if observed closer, mean nothing at all. What matters is your pleasure. If you like sex that way, remember that no one around you, no one anywhere, is in a position to make a judgement over you because chances are they are either into more extremes, OR more enslaved by taboos and therefore much less courageous than you are. it still does not mean they don't like what you like. Most of all, the stronger you become as a person, deep inside, the less vulnerable to society's taboos you become. When you gain more confidence in your deep value, you gain more power over those mysterious eyes judging you. Because those very eyes are nothing but yourself questioning yourself. i hope it makes sense to you.
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