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I am a Courtisane...
2/16/2009 1:13 am |
If I may summarize... what a contemporary Courtisane is... About Courtisanes... A true courtisane is someone who is more beautiful inside than she is outside, regardless of how beautiful she might be. She is often unaware of the extent of her outer beauty, and is more concerned with bringing kindness, pleasure and happiness into people's lives, not living off an ego, or putting others down to make herself look better. She is confident in herself, brings inspiration, serenity and integrity, not corruption, bitterness and slander. She also chooses to be a pleasure provider and sexual healer, she is not someone who 'has' to do things she does not enjoy, in order to pay her bills/ support her family/ habit, make ends meet. She provides a higher quality experience ... She invests extensively in her art; from her presentation and beauty, to her classes in deportment and etiquette, wine food and art appreciation, in addition to her excellent schooling. She invests in music knowledge and dance abilities; she will usually speak several languages, play at least one instrument, and have the ability to put on such erotic entertainment shows as you might expect from a professional. She is dynamic and unforgettable. She considers herself an entertainer, whether desire enters her service or not. This is a confident, prudent and sensual woman who understands she has a lot to give, and derives immense pleasure from giving, an inherently sexual being. She is uniquely pleased knowing she has made a positive difference in her client's life. The fee she is paid is simply the cherry on top; she is less concerned with the money so much as the mutual joy and quality of pleasure that can be achieved. She is someone who is extremely vigilant in her care of herself. She understands her body is the housing for her beautiful soul, and deserves the very best treatment. This is someone with a healthy mind, who consciously eats well, exercises regularly, and makes intelligent, prudent choices about whom she allows to socialize with her and what she subjects her body/ skin/ mind to. She strives to make her appearance match the beauty within, rather than the other way around... An immaculate, natural, beautiful image is her aim. A courtisane is a woman of integrity, intelligence and honesty. She is a true businesswoman, and understands the way her business works. She is a woman of responsibility, and likes to do the 'right thing' where possible, preferring to be thought of in the best possible light by all who know her. She does not see bringing pleasure to a person in need of affection as 'wrong'. She has nothing to hide, and whilst she prizes discretion highly, she does not like to associate with those she feels she must keep things from. She is a 'stand-up' individual in lay terms, who would never demean herself or her reputation by allowing herself to become greedy. A courtisane understands her reputation and image depends upon her behavior at all times. She is aware of the fact that how she lives is reflected in her overall look, presentation, attitude and demeanor, and she is someone who lives well and behaves appropriately continually to all. She is a genuinely quality woman of high standards in all aspects, at all times. A woman like this has too much class to ever make anyone feel uncomfortable. She will be gracious, and comfortable to converse politely with everyone from Diplomats & celebrities to her local store owner & personal maid. She would never do anything to embarrass or hurt another individual for selfish, proud or greedy reasons. She is in fact usually more concerned for others' comforts than her own, thus entirely unselfish, whilst maintaining her own healthy, humble level of self respect and esteem. Since the true Courtisane is more sexually and professionally talented, of higher quality overall and her genuine affections and company in demand, her fee will of course be higher, but it is a token, a joke between the two, simply to extract the genuinely successful, deserving people from the crowds who want her. Her gentleperson pays a fee to gain her favor, a gift of good faith toward the ability to please her. Generally the person whom has achieved such financial success are those who have the charm and sophistication to match her own, and the knowledge of women to properly appreciate and thoroughly enjoy all the different entertainments of this chosen female, not embarrass or insult her with the pouncing of an inexperienced youth, ignoring her exquisite attire, her intoxicating scent, and the efforts she has gone to, to seduce. The person will be a gentle and courteous at all times, as they both respect the mutual unspoken laws of tasteful togetherness. There is a special connection, and emotional touch that occurs between the courtisane and her chosen client. They rarely spend small amounts of time together when they connect; they enhance each others' lives, and when they are together it is almost like Romeo and Juliet re-connecting, high school young-at-hearts stealing away together to experience a little more romance. It is not a 'service' situation so much as an affectionate human bond that is formed between them. A courtisane client is rarely looking for an hour or two to enjoy company, service and/or intimacy. He is searching for that connection, needing to be refilled and enhanced emotionally. Just as hundreds of different positions within the intimacy period is not conducive to a sensual, sexually healing encounter, so a different girl every time, or short bursts of service is not conducive to these special connections. A courtisane client may see different models, but will usually continue to see the same models again and again, to further the connection they have established. True intimacy and sexual healing or growth is rarely achieved with multitudes of partners, or brief encounters with them. A client will always defer to a lady's preference within reason, as any intelligent person knows, when a quality lady is happy, her companion is kept very happy! A client may often find oneself falling in love with her, but needs to remember this is not real - this is why one pays for her company. She is providing the illusion, the fantasy of perfection. The client pays for her eternally good mood and giving behavior. There is a reason why she is a fantasy woman, and why that ends when they become too close. She is rarely in a position to want to be 'rescued' anyway, as she has chosen and prefers this life for now - her dynamic spirit is due to the freedom she enjoys in her current lifestyle, and most importantly, the time she has to herself to refresh her soul and remain exclusive to her booking client. Try catching a free butterfly and keeping it in a cage - it doesn't stay vibrant for long... She may settle down in time, but only when she is ready, and rarely with a person who has paid her for her time in the past. Theirs is a respected, caring business relationship, and nothing more. They may genuinely care for each other, but a life together is impractical. This unique client selection practice is what keeps the courtisane exclusive to her elite client. The woman who accepts all requests just to get as much money as possible, soon sadly loses her exclusivity and is no longer considered an option for the elite client, who understands the difference. Like minded people are brought together, where the price is not so important as the perfect match and the quality experience, a step above the typical. To have a quality relationship, be it part time or full time, there can be no taking. When both are giving, for the pleasure they receive from their partner's joy, without expecting anything in return but knowing they have brought pleasure to another, this is quality. A natural and healthy connection is where both are giving, therefore both receive, therefore all is balanced well. ***The text provided above has been copied from several resources on the net, and, has been adapted, edited and corrected where appropriate by TS Billie. |
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4/15/2011 5:21 am |
yes Goddess you are quite beutiful and i wish i would have had chance to met and learn fronm you but alas you never met me for coffee as u nce had stated you would. But on a more positive note , when i ran a crais list ad for help marketing myself I did get some good responses and 2011 looks lie it might be a better year for me.
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 2/24/2011 7:36 pm |
Ahd if Mischell will acept a nice smothh on her cheek. Haveing seen her and find her to be a very attractive woman as well. How can you lesve that closet, Should have have had it's own zip code. You could have put 900 Hotanbdtots as well as well 10000 pigmineys in there." To quote Larry the Cable guy, Oh lord forgive me. " Just kidding. Please forgive me." Sleep well togeather as well as rest well to geather. Didn't know that Mischelle name is Mike. That is ok. To me she will always be Mischelle. And if this need to be safe then it will. Only Wintergirl will know. Am on your suppoer team. Jim
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2/24/2011 7:24 pm |
Keerp up the great work woman keep it up.
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2/25/2010 2:17 pm |
I can say and feel about living a glorious life mentioned above is that I would do anything to be able to achieve looking good enough, being interesting enough attaining the sexual knowledge and experience and proper training to be a creature of such beauty, grace, charm, Intellect and carefully learning the technique of being a sexual healer , a product of erotica as well as a deeply loving yet very strong women, never one to be pretentious or quick to judge nor not being one to forget those whose time was spent helping the young Courtesan to become and perfect the position that was attained through obvious training and due diligence of someone that has already achieved and mastered the art of the attaining the sexual knowledge and experience and proper training to be a creature of such beauty, grace, charm, Intellect and then delicately learning the technique of being a sexual healer , of being a product of erotica as well as a deeply loving yet very strong women, never one to be pretentious or quick to judge nor not being one to forget those whose time was spent helping the young Courtesan to become and perfect the position that she attained through obvious training and due diligence of someone that has already traveled the long and sometimes painful road to perfecting the art of sensuality, sexuality and morality and has moved on to attain the likeness of being that could be called a beautiful fallen angel whose centuries of painfully knowing one has succumbed to giving and receiving sheer pleasure and of attaining pure ecstasy has lead to her desire to teach others what attaining that position, that of a high priestess or some who have experienced her magic charm,touch and spirit enhanced pleasure of sexual fulfillment might even say she was once a Goddess, a very beautiful feminine creature and once fallen angel from the heavens a choosing of her own free will, now sharing in all that is pleasureful and fulfilling that of the most carnal and beast like desires of all flesh man and beast and even those who taste the forbidding and possibly demonic acts of all creatures that of heaven and of earth sharing in that which were once forbidding pleasures but now brings a wickedness in the act of breaking all and any taboos that bring pleasure to some and others bring strong condemnation on those that enjoy all accepted and all taboo sexual acts of decadents known to male, shemale, female and those that will always strive to attain the femininity that is sometimes attainable and sometimes a empty and very painful quest that will always be unfulfilled and never ending. 
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2/18/2010 7:27 am |
A vision of a life I've never considered. Extremly well written by one that is obviously quite intellegent. Erotic without giving away too much. It makes a man like me wish they were "with money" just for the pleasure, but greatfull the are not because possiably someday we will meet and one would not like to loose the chance to be offered thier heart............ pierced...
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