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silvermuse 53F
202 posts
4/27/2015 1:41 pm
Goals vs Lists of Tasks


Master has goals set for me, creativity wise, that I have to meet each day as long as we've not been out and about, or busy with visitors.

1000 words on whatever the current project is.
1 piece of artwork, or significant work on a current piece.

They're not big goals, but in theory they help me stay on track.

He doesn't give me chores to do around the house, or tasks to do, as we both have busy lives. We have a business we run, a house, and two . Frankly, if there's stuff to do around the house we split it out between us a lot of the time. I do the majority of the housework, but he does some.

So, the goals are small ones, but they are a part of how we live.

Some go a different route, massive lists of things their sub or slave has to attend to each day and for them it might work, or does work. Yet I've also been told, more than once, that he isn't a 'real' (trade marked, patent pending, card carrying etc.) Master because he doesn't do that with me.

I tend to laugh at that.

We have what works for us. Neither of us work a 9-5, M-F job. Our working days are often 12 hours plus, combined with family and stuff, and 7 days a week. Having me do the housework naked or in lingerie is a joke to us - there are in the house. It doesn't work.

What about whilst they're at school, I've had a couple ask. Yeah, great, reality is one is homeschooled due to medical reasons though that might be changing in a years time.

The reality is that real life means you have to adapt, and working within it is far easier than trying to creative an alternative dimension for kinky time. With him that means setting basic guidelines for my creative side - and you know, that works for us.


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