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i need people to talk to that are going though the same!
5/3/2009 1:22 pm |
well i dont seam to blog oftern and its not coz i dont want to or that i dont have the times its just i never know how to put wats in my mind into words on paper or on screen.i think im scread of lettingg my feeling out so people can see how weak and affaied i really am. i mean i had a baby 2months ago and im finding being a single mum hard and quite lonely.and its hard finding people to opern up to and trusting them to be able to talk to without feeling silly and rather weak! I know im not competly on my own i have the babys dad around and were really good mates i have family and friends but still some times i feel so alone and unloved and it really hurts and im probily sounding selfish but its worse at night when iv put baba to bed and im alone in bed its quite and at that time all u want is a cuddle and to feel safe but knowone is there! and u end up cryin ur self to sleep coz u feel so alone! i find it really hard to opern up about things and writing this is hard but i need to get it out some how....i need people to talk to that are going though the same! |
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5/3/2009 4:09 pm |
Yeah that can be a hard time. Newborns. Yet later, you will remember it as one of the best times of your entire life. Try to focus on what you do have, rather than what you dont have. Also you could have post partum depression. Please mention that to your Dr. I'm sorry to hear you feel alone. You are young yet yourself and may not realize it's not the Man who makes your life... its, you~ Make it the best you can for you and your baby. As the poster above me said, be careful who you let into you and your childs lives. The stakes are very high. Much love. oxoxo
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5/4/2009 9:07 am |
I had my daughter at 19, single and like you, had a very good support network but it doesn't necessarily take away that sense of loneliness. Remember, like others have said, you need to give yourself time to get over the birth. It takes months rather than weeks and 'baby blues' where you feel a bit down is very common but does pass with time. Sounds like you have babysitters to hand so take time out for yourself sometimes. Even if its just for an afternoon to have a bubble bath and spend a few hours doing nothing and just resting or an un-interrupted phone call to a girlfriend. It will get easier and however you feel doesn't make you weak or mean your not a good Mum, so dont be afraid to ask for help when you need it. Folks are right when they say its the hardest job in the world so take help when its offered. If however you start to feel worse, do go to your doctor in case its post-natal depression. Take care Woody Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn
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3/19/2010 11:28 am |
Very open and honest words. It wont always be this way for you you may in the future wish you had these quiet times all over again! But for now take solace in the fact you are never alone while you have your little Hope. Everything else in life shrinks into insignificance. Your fun times will come again keep your chin up. You have your head screwed on so you will know in your heart of hearts things will get better for you. Kindest regards Yogin.
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