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Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
7/17/2014 1:26 pm

Dear Zafti, it's been a long time, and now i come here only to find you hurting, and that's so sad!
It makes me wish I could do or say something to help, but I know that I can't.
The only thought that comes to mind, and as I said, I expect this will be of little or no help. Is that you said, " I don't mean won't, or don't want to, I mean can't give because you don't have it?"

Well, Zafti, if that's the case, then it almost in and of itself releases you from feeling bad. I mean, if you can't give it, then it's beyond your control, and therefore, not something you can change. Of course, that probably doesn't ease the pain, but in way, it should.

Best Wishes to you both. May one or both of you find a way to ease the hurting.


“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


jenny14 75T  
90051 posts
7/17/2014 4:04 pm

zafti

A warm hug to you!

Love can persist even if sex does not.....I hope you can both be happy though....

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


i_am_cyn 103F
1941 posts
7/18/2014 5:48 am

warm hugs for you my friend. Believe that the love you share will find a way to get you both through.


imalwayson 56F
1650 posts
7/20/2014 9:53 pm

I hate to see someone so sweet and caring in a position where they are hurting. Hopefully, if nothing else, you both can maintain some type of relationship, even if it can't be the same as it is now. I think that, if anyone could find it in themselves to make such a difficult and delicate transition, it would be you. (((Hugs)))

Infinite... the ultimate expression of who I am ~ Gemini Syndrome


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
7/21/2014 10:15 am

((Hugzz))
YTB
BD~
P
xoxos

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
7/21/2014 11:33 am

I just bet you could! Wish I were there to help your Domme-y side come out to play. You do have wondering just what that might consist of though

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


sophis_id 60F
16373 posts
7/24/2014 8:28 pm

Hugs you tightly.....my thoughts are evolutionary in nature.....change begets evolution.....you neither have to give the other up...that's all I'm saying...just be something else to the other....sounds like you are there and he's consumed with guilt. The beauty of who you are is.....you'll love him anyway. He just has to love himself too...



Inner Fucking Peace: watch?v=92i5m3tV5XY


KinkySubGal 41F

7/27/2014 4:00 am

Nawwwwww I'm sorry to hear you're hurting, sounds like a sshitty situation to be in. Sending virtual hugs x

One does not discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time - Andre Gide



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