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Open letter to a new blogger...hey, daintything!!
6/14/2005 11:37 pm Last Read: |
I wish I did not have to post this kind of post. dantything, unfortunately has a blog not set to accept replies. But I am hoping that she reads this.... YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT to defend your boundaries. Your dominant has NO RIGHT to press you on hard limits. You are ABSOULTELY CORRRECT to place your emotional safety about all else. When I was first being trained, I was given "The Prime Directive" the gist of it was the following: The submissive / slave / property is to protect the Owner's property at all costs: UP TO AND INCLUDING protecting the property from the Owner themselves. This means you have a DUTY to keep yourself safe. And the type of boundary crossing you describe, even without the specifics, smacks of a non-positive situation. Well, you know how to contact me if you'd like. But you must know, you HAVE to know, the game being perpetrated on you is not submission. It is emotionally unsafe. Peace ~Mollena  Mollena
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6/15/2005 12:54 am |
Did anyone else want to smack that limey prat upside the head with a dead dingo's donger when they read that? He sounds like a petulant 3 year old having a tantrum coz he isn't getting his way. Yep. Uh-huh.. that's someone that I want in control of my safety.
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6/15/2005 6:18 am |
A willing partner is far to precious to take beyond her means-Barbara Behr-1971(HOM)
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