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when it begins to blur  

Mollena

9/9/2008 2:19 pm

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9/10/2008 3:18 pm

 After doing in depth analysis of dozens upon dozens of profiles within the course of my job, it can be a bit daunting...the most daunting is the OVERWHELMING number of men who eschew monogamy. Reject it as "small-minded", "limiting", "unnatural". Assure you that you will be "cherished" "special" and "part of the Household". Or the substantial percentage who are straight up looking for desert away from home.

This is, I am sure, of little surprise to any women who have diligently looked for potential partners, but I have been pretty lax in my own searching. I think perhaps that gave me a slightly skewed sense of "Hey, who knows...maybe!" kind of hope of finding suitable partners on-line.

Man...

OK, back to the slag heap of dick shots!


Mollena
_brie_
20126 posts 

9/10/2008 4:11 am

 I'm not looking now but should I need to, Mollena, pleeaase tell me where else these days I can meet men other than online. (I already dated everyone at my health club so that party is over. )
Planet Earth: The insane asylum of the universe.


Mollena replies on 9/10/2008 9:08 am:
*lol* brie, you went ahead and eliminated the next biggest pool of potential mates!
*lol*

The finny thing is, I've met my "post kink" partners in divers places, but let's take a quick look:

Of the "dates / hook-ups / play-interactions" that resulted in any ongoing relationship, I'm looking at "how we met" looking like:

1) ALT* (never went RT: the guy was married and lying. FOR 9 MONTHS)
2) Munch
3) Leather Community
4) Attending a Play
5) ALT

Those were the ongoing relationships that lasted > 6 months.

I've have friends I've known through the Leather Community with whom I have had ongoing relationships that included play.

he most solid relationships have definitely been the "flesh-time" ones, in my experience. Might be coincidental. I don't have much of a track record here.

In almost 12 years I have had 4 relationships of any consequence and the LONGEST ongoing of those was 3 years (with 2 of those being contiguous)

I'm not looking at good odds here!

I can't recommend jumping into this pool...my continued hope is that your current happiness flows onward for the foreseeable future!@

love

Mo
SensualSolution
20086 posts 

9/10/2008 9:02 am

 I think the word is... bleak.

Sigh.
~Sen

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