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Suggestions and Sphincters....or Advice and Anuses (or is that anii??)
4/27/2005 5:21 pm Last Read: |
"Opinions are like assholes," it is said.... "...everybody's got one." I usually have several, but most of my chart's in Mercury, so what the hell. I have recently started scanning the advice lines here, and occasionally posting. Much of the time, even if someone posts something that I disagree with, I can see their point. But quite a few people seem to like to respond with shit like "Well, a true sub / slave / master / mistress / whatever would..." and then spout some dogma. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr. For example: a dude asked if wanting to get fucked up the ass made him less of a dominant, or something.... OK, hold on, lemmie get the exact phrasing. Don't wanna misquote homeboy, since I also want to take a page from vkindmaster's book and give a plug for another blogger whom I enjoy... BRB. ... ..... ........ Shit, this computer SUCKS. It is even slower than the one I have at home, and that one has less RAM . ANYWAY! Here was the original question: Can a Dom get nailed? Is it possible for a dom male to have a woman fuck him with a strap-on without losing the dom image and transitioning to a sub? And some people posted that, well, no, they couldnt pegg their top and not have it alter their opinion. OK, fair enough. Some people said it might be odd, but theyd do it of ordered. But then there was at least one whacky reply, that made me irritated And the interesting thing is that a bunch of people gave the question negative points. Cant figure out why I thought it was a good question. But I digress. As a result of this (pretty bold, I thought) query, I went over to check out the dudes blog, and found it to be thoughtful and interesting, even if he has a picture of a scary vagina on one of his posts. SO, free plug for ajackson_ccss blog! {=} Mollena  Mollena
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 4/27/2005 10:24 pm |
I feel you, betty67. People are SO willing to cram others into their own narrow fantasies, realities and limits...I think that the perverts themselves need a cultural revolution!!! {=} Mollena
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4/27/2005 10:27 pm |
Though, betty67 Mollena
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4/28/2005 6:03 am |
You aren't who you are because of what you do, you do what you do because of who you are (aaah very wise, lots of words placed in a circle  )Dominance or submissiveness comes from inside... nothing you do will make you a sub if you aren't one. Even if you let someone dominate you in whatever way, for whatever reason, it may be enjoyable but will not suddenly change your orientation. If grabbing a whip and barking orders could make someone a Dom, we'd have a lot fewer problems on this site...
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4/28/2005 11:14 am |
N4sir67 you hit the nail on the head...er...or pegged the top right up the boo-tay. Or something equally inappropriate. Jess, you have a really salient point re: the bottom or sub having their comfort level compromised in the course of rump-rogering their top. Thank you, Deepbluenothing, for distilling this into that simple yet profound phrase!! And now I have to go post another post about the pimp and ho thing, betty67, because that brought back an interesting discussion I'd seen a few years back on a discussion list....! ..Plus, I suck at walking in stilettos, so I'd be all over platforms Mollena
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4/28/2005 11:34 am |
I just wanted to say thanks for pointing me towards ajackson's blog...it is now on my watched list...thanks
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4/29/2005 1:58 pm |
You are welcome!! It occurred to me, after the fact, to ask Mr. Jackson if it was OK for me to mention his blog...he was indeed OK with it, in case anyone card. But in the future, I think I'll ask first. To be polite! {=} ~Mollena Mollena
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