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I am starting to think those snugglers are on to something....
12/1/2005 10:44 am Last Read: |
The thoughtful and sweet Doc_Sonar (who, btw, manages to identify as dominant without a self-aggrandizing title or capitalizing pronouns or entire posts....but I digressssss.....) almost brought tears to my eyes by the simple act of mentioning his offer of a big bear hug in replying to my last post. I flashed back to a conversation I had recently with some astonished co-workers about "Cuddle Parties". Yep. Cuddle Parties. The paucity of platonic human contact has moved some people to create safe space where adults can get together for non-sexual physical contact. My co-workers thought it silly and pathetic. I kind of laughed....but internally I winced. I love being held. I love touching people. I don't get enough, and sometimes I don't want to fuck someone to get snuggling time. I had the good fortune to have some really nice cuddling or snuggling time when I was abroad. From simple couch cuddling to blissful healing touch to holding a sleeping baby to being held while enduring some non-consensual interal upset, I felt so blessed and blissed that I realized how much I miss it. Is it just me? Do you get held enough? If so, you are VERY fortunate, I think! If not, do you miss it? I read somewhere online that people who hugged or were hugged five times a day or more were less depressive and had lower blood pressure. I just remembered a funny incident....last year I was walking in the Castro when a guy, who was walking with a girl, stopped me and asked for a hug. I was startled....had one of those rapid-fire conversations in my head, then said "Fuck it." and hugged the guy. It made my week. I think, at this point in my life, I'd turn down a sweaty hot fuck in lieu of a nice comforting cuddle.  Cuddle party starting to look less lame to me..... love Mo (...probably about to set up a "Free Hugs Here!" booth in San Francisco....)  Mollena
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12/1/2005 12:22 pm |
I hope you get so many cuddy hugs that you get sick of them and come hunt me down for the hot sweaty fuckin.
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 12/1/2005 1:11 pm |
mmmmm hugs n snuggles... especially hugs... When you think all your pieces are gonna just fall all over everywhere and if they do..you won't be able to find them again...A hug...a simple hug..helps hold all your pieces together. I could use a few of those myself. For newcomers and not so newcomers. Arm yourself with knowledge
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12/1/2005 2:00 pm |
I don't think anyone can get or give enough cuddles! I love them! I love to just hold, be held, hold each other. No sexual overtones, no requirement to go any further. Bliss!
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12/1/2005 3:17 pm |
"Paucity" is an awesome word. I like to cuddle after a scene, until I know my slut is back from Slutland to Reality. After that I can do without it. But maybe if I could cuddle you...???... Are you ready to be what you were born to be.... with a big spicy dollop of sauce?
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12/1/2005 5:43 pm |
I am definitely a hug and cuddle person. I feel I would be a mess without it as a regular part of my life. Sex I could live without, but I'd really go crazy without the warmth of snuggly human contact. If you're ever in my area, I've got a hug for ya.
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12/2/2005 4:35 am |
Come to Detroit... I'll cuddle you sexy thang!!! (Oh wait it's frikken COLD here... maybe I should go to SanFran  ) {=} I'm with you, cuddles rock...
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 12/2/2005 1:11 pm |
You'll see me in your booth...should yo ever make one... no damn doubt!! Peace Mo.  Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...and...More than Ever - "I believe in looking reality straight in the eye and denying it." ~G Keillor
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12/2/2005 4:09 pm |
I think men need to cuddle and learn to separate cuddleing and fucking .CUDDIEING is not forplay cuddieing is some thing we all need hugs are good but cuddleing can turn a life around.moyer51
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12/3/2005 2:02 pm |
I'm founding out all the time how much I need to hug and cuddle after a scene. It completes things for me. But I don't find too many Doms who enjoy that part! In fact, my latest adventure ends on this very sour note--which I plan on blogging about tomorrow when I get home! Just when everything was going right, and we were hugging and cuddling and winding down, he said "Now Don't Get All Clingy!" Boy, did that put a damper on things! That Cuddle Party is starting to sound real good to me!
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12/25/2005 8:47 pm |
Don't think there are ever enough hugs or cuddles : They fill that huge need to connect with others, to the extent where I have been known to pass over the fucking, as there are times when it's not forplay.
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