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pandia__ 50F
3097 posts
8/3/2015 12:30 pm

You'll have ups and downs for a while brim. Breathing is good and be grateful for this moments of peace. Sometimes you'll hit a wall of grief like a tsunami. That's ok. And you'll always have him--as memories, as a presence and even that voice in your head. It's just different.

Btw, you love fall. It's the time passing that's making you dizzy. Like being on an over enthusiastic merry go round. Eventually you'll get the rhythm of time back. For now, just keep spinning around.


Hard2LoveNurse 66F
9492 posts
8/3/2015 3:37 pm


Loss is never easy...
Never goes away...
It just eventually hurts a little less...
But there are so many days when someone says something,
Or I see that coke can with her name on it and the tears flow
The lump returns to my throat and I feel like I can not breathe

I go with it... eventually I have it back under control. I can breathe again.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
HUGS ~Cassie


"Seeking soul-mate!! Seduce my mind and you can have my body, touch my soul and I’m yours forever! "


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
8/3/2015 4:10 pm


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
8/3/2015 8:46 pm

Harbingers. ...............Of Butter Pecan Ice Cream, Pecan Pie, Pralines on a salad. Pecan encrusted baked fish. And if Ralph is anywhere near, chopped pecans of the cake.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Ironman916 48M

8/3/2015 9:06 pm

BIG HUGS!!!
The annoying part of grief is the smallest of things can set back any progress made in grief. I'm very sorry to hear you were smacked in the face this AM with sadness. Like you said before... its a motherfucker!!

Keep on keeping on, reach out to those you feel comfortable with, keep talking to your therapist... hoping there is more resolution for you in the very near future. While your friend is gone from the physical world... he will always be there for you when you need him. No one said you had to forget him. You just have to be able to let his physical being go. You knew this man so well... you could probably subconsciously carry on your own conversation with him and make it feel like you were face to face. You don't have to let go of the emotion... just the physical being. Be well my friend. Step by step... breath by breath.



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