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IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
11/22/2016 9:23 pm

I'm sorry to read this. I empathize.

There's nothing I can write here to ease your pain. Just know that the pain will ease.

Give yourself whatever amount of space and time you need. And, please, always be well.

I remember now.


shoor2pleaseUK 76M
50 posts
11/22/2016 9:25 pm

You met one of life's shit men ... please do not damn all men because of him. Rise above that... take your time ... love will come to you .


Raven_GB 62M
854 posts
11/22/2016 10:51 pm

Consider this as a narrow escape. From your posts you understand the highs of love and the lows of grief. Sadly, the process of grief can be shockingly lengthy - I am still "processing" it after four years. Life does not stand still and needs are needs, but you may not be quite ready to move on to a new, great love yet. This (and the desire for it) may be why you didn't see this guy in the correct light earlier on.

Enjoy the woods!


alt5250 61M
1283 posts
11/23/2016 9:15 am

B... Nice to enjoy your company again, though not under the circumstances...

So very sorry you ran into such a brick wall. Some guys are better, some not...some really no redeeming value at all. The fault is not yours... Repeat that if in doubt

Hoping you & puppy enjoy your time away.... Remember you have friends....and the next one...just tell him you have a lot of adopted big brothers who want to talk to him first!! 😀😀


VirgoGirl78 45F
1272 posts
11/23/2016 11:50 am

I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this Brimming You have been through loss to know that time helps the pain lessen a little though a piece of it always remains.
I love the sound of your next adventure though


drmgirl622 68F  
25821 posts
11/23/2016 12:23 pm

Things have been so tough for you, wish I could wrap my arms around you. Your next chapter sounds magnificent......you and your pup enjoy


InderioMinx 54F  
19778 posts
11/23/2016 4:49 pm

Sorry this happened to you Brim.

~sending support and best wishes for a safe and healthy time away~

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


Fella_ 113M
309 posts
11/23/2016 6:13 pm

Your plan sounds perfect. To Spring!

His loss. It's good that no more of your time will be spent with that one. Something just clicked off and I hope I'm not reading that anything is your fault about it. It is he who should have put brakes on earlier because of his so-called needs.

<--- shortened his name to Fella_


tahimikbayani 53M
8008 posts
11/23/2016 6:21 pm

Yeah, I don't get this ending at all. How can someone not know what is acceptable to them as a religious standard and kids??? He should have conveyed what he already knew a long time ago.

A break is good, the woods is better, the woods with Jones is the best. Enjoy and keep strong. It's just a matter of time until it truly works out.


DancingDom 74M
22444 posts
11/24/2016 9:56 am

lI am a bit sad after reading your post. But, I see your keeping a positive outlook for the future.

I do not understand this man. But I do understand just turning it off for someone, when they done you wrong, mislead or otherwise did not offer the fulfillment you deserve.

One thins has been constant for you, your friends here are still here for you. I do look forward to reading about your travels. If your trail leads this way, there will be good coffee or whatever and music for you. But I suspect your going on the Appellation trail. Keep a cell phone handy, in case you run into any trouble.

Oddly, i have music on you tuber, CSN&Y live in Detroit in the early 70's, Long Time Gone.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Artschoolgrad 46M
8335 posts
12/2/2016 10:44 am

hang in there, brim! that long walk in the future sounds perfect.



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