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jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
3/5/2015 1:24 pm

surprise

I too hope things improve....

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


lastguymn 56M

3/5/2015 5:13 pm

It seems hard to believe, but despite the obvious allure that is inherent to our sexuality, I truly believe that not having sex can become a habit as difficult to break as any other. I think we tend to place such a high value on spontaneity because it is such a very rare thing. Human behavior has a tendency to fall into patterns...even when those patterns aren't in our best interest or something we even want. But the nice thing about a bad habit is that it can be changed...especially if you desire the change. I don't doubt that you two will find your groove before long.

~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


badboy45377 70M

3/5/2015 7:23 pm

oh heck, seduce him...lol....I doubt he'll complain. vbg

Badboy


lastguymn 56M

3/6/2015 10:05 pm

    Quoting  :

I have an idea for you. I saw a couple on TV talking about this, and I've never had the opportunity myself to try it out, but maybe it would work for you. This couple had fallen into a pattern of sexual disinterest, and they knew that it was harming their marriage. So they made a pact together to have sex at least once every day for entire month...no matter what...even when time was short or they were tired or they didn't really feel like it, they made the effort to connect sexually every day. When the month was over, they both admitted they didn't want to continue with compulsory sex every day, but the exercise (for lack of a better word) had a great effect oiling the gears in their sex life, so to speak, and in the months that followed they quite happily found themselves not only engaging in sex a lot more often than they had been before (they settled into 3 to 5 times a week), but it also really opened the doors to communication, intimacy, and affection.

Might be worth it to challenge your favorite Viking to take part in a 30-day sex binge. It may be tiring, but as far as therapies go, this one doesn't sound too bad at all. Best of luck.


~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles



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