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Confusion on exact differences between Subs and Slaves
10/13/2005 7:48 am Last Read: |
I'm hoping for a true and definite definition of Subs and Slaves. I have a the idea that a sub is someone who willing submits but there is always the possibility if treated badly they may leave the relationship. I guess I think of a sub as having a few rules, and a slave as having given up the right to rules the moment they finally submit to a master. A slaves choices are all made about who their master is but a sub chooses a master while still perhaps retaining a few rules. Is this an accurate definition? I would love to hear from some more knowledgeable people who could maybe clarify or correct my understanding. Update My quest is complicated by my situation. I am looking for definitions so I can present them to my Lord in the hopes that we can have better discussions about sub/dom relationship, so that he can see the many different and accepted levels, to broaden his views, also because I have polygamist leanings and would like to find a live in girlfriend, I'm a funny mix, if you've ever read Mercedes Lackey she rights about the kinder folk, who live in family's of one dom male who decides life and death and then a group of wives, but there in an order to it, I wish to be first wife in my home, it's extremely important to me to control the way my house looks, the bills, ect... as anyone who runs a home most have experienced it best for one person to over see the bills & chores or else it's all to easy to make a muddle of the check book and nobody ever knows where the socks are, I take care of everything for my Lord as he wishes and he gives me a free hand to run the house as long as I provide for his comfort, but in the bed room I would not care wither my girlfriend was sub or dom, I can switch, seeing as for me it is just another form of submission, giving my love what they want. Living to Serve |
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10/13/2005 10:18 am |
GENERALLY, A SLAVE SURRENDERS THEIR LIMITS TO SOMEONE THEY TRUST. THEY SHOULD KNOW THEY CAN TRUST THE ONE THEY SURRENDER TOO. THEY USUALLY THEY DO NOT MAKE DEMANDS. THEIR SUBMISSION GOES BEYOND SEX. THEY MAY CLEAN HOUSE AND DRESS AS TOLD. SLAVES ALSO END RELATIONSHIPS WHEN THEY FEEL THE TRUST HAS BEEN VIOLATED. EVERYONE HAS LIMITS. FOR EXAMPLE, IF I TOLD MY SLAVE TO GIVE ME THE MONEY SHE HAS TO PAY HER KIDS COLLEGE TUITION SO I CAN SPEND IT AT A STRIP CLUB, I THINK SHE WOULD BE AN IDIOT IF SHE DID. FACIAL BRANDING, BREAKING BONES, OR CASTRATION MIGHT CAUSE SOME SLAVES TO END THE RELATIONSHIP RATHER THAN SUBMITTING. BUT NOT ALL. MOST WOULD DROP SOMEONE WHO HIT ON THEIR CHILDREN. "DO WHAT YOU CAN WITH WHAT YOU HAVE WHERE YOU ARE." T. Roosevelt
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 10/13/2005 1:46 pm |
INHO.. labels and semantics. However, in general slaves give up more freedoms, desire 24/7, that sort of thing. And by the way, a slave isn't someone without limits. Someone without limits is called unsafe. Are you ready to be what you were born to be.... with a big spicy dollop of sauce?
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