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so confused, so sad
1/24/2012 3:04 am |
idk where to begin  ....argh.....just omg so freaking sad right now....i think Sir and i just broke up and he is going to go back to Indianapolis.... idk we don't get along on my dogs. i have two poodles and i have listen to everything. when he moved in with me, he requested that my puppies not sleep with me and for me to leave them down stairs. i did that, i listen to him about that. but it's every single day several times a day he makes a comments about my dogs. he is a cat person and he really just don't like my dogs or how i hold them or give them attention. every time i do he makes a comments about it. i am tired of it and i guess he is tired of it. and he threaten to go back home and that's not the first time he said it. i'm not going to live with someone who threatens to go back home in arguments or turns off their phones etc.... yes i am sub and i do listen but i have my limits too. and my kids and my animals are off limits to others....as they are mine and i take care of them!!!! i went out to his apartment tonight twice trying to make up with him and talk to him, but he and i just do not see eye to eye and so right now it seems as if he is leaving me. |
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 1/24/2012 4:06 am |
 I too am a cat person but love the dog that mj brought into the house, along with two more wonderful cats. It is compromise, and continued negative comments work totally against that. Nor does running from the problem fix anything, although an agreed "break in the action" in order to calm down is a great tool, too many never even try that. Only you two know what will or won't make this work. Best wishes finding answers Don't forget to breathe The soul runs deep, even in shallow waters
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1/24/2012 5:03 am |
i'm so sorry to hear that ... are you sure that he's really leaving? you said "it seems as if", so i don't know if that means he's really going or not ...? i agree with you that threatening is not good, and neither is avoiding, and you are absolutely right that your children and pets are part of you. i don't want to make any judgements about him or about your relationship. just want you to know that i feel for you and am thinking of you
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1/24/2012 8:07 am |
you gotta stick to your guns on your babies. would you be seeing a vanilla person who didn't like dogs? then don't be with a dom who doesn't. i will compromise about a lot of things in my life, but love me, love my cats and my dog. hold out for someone who will appreciate them as much as you do. Sincerely, Girl, the Scout.
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1/24/2012 8:19 am |
Maybe for the best? Masters are a dime a dozen whereas a good dog (or cat) is hard to find 
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1/25/2012 1:52 pm |
The constant comments about your dogs would grate and wear away at the best of relationships. All I will say about that is he should "build a bridge and get over it" Personal I suspect that there is more to it. Only because from where I sit it seems such a petty issue. Stay strong. You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist. Friedrich Nietzsche
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1/26/2012 12:18 am |
Maybe for the best? Masters are a dime a dozen whereas a good dog (or cat) is hard to find i can relate to this situation, not the same, but it requires you to look at the practicalities of the situation and cast the human felt feelings aside. It is sad and it damm well hurts. the universe knows you care and will send rays of comfort for you. embrace you in its arms. look up at the sky and feel its power. feel the earth under your feet; the pillows of love to make this an easier hour. xx analiese
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