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sending sir home
1/28/2012 1:42 am |
Okay yeah I am going to send him back home….the him is the Sir…..currently he don’t know it yet…but I am getting him an airplane ticket one way for him to go home. I am tired of a lot of things and a lot of petty things. I came out to South Carolina to get over my ex and me after being married for 23 years. I don’t need someone in my life right now who loses his temper and jumps bad at me for stupid stuff. This latest thing was tonight. We were playing cards and we often sit together and play games or go bowling or something. I noticed early on that his demeanor changes when I start winning etc….so in bowling and other sports I try and not win. It really don’t bother me to lose. But in cards okay so I am ahead in the game, It’s late 3 am and I am tired. I want to go to bed and get some sleep. We talk about it and he seemed okay with it. So we were finishing one last hand out for the night. And yeah I won. But it’s how I won that pissed him off. I played my cards out first as if I wasn’t going to win. Then I threw down the winning hand. He seriously got pissed at how I played my cards! He said it was childish of me not to threw the winning hand down first. I was shocked at his behavior. It to me is after all just a game. Does it really matter how you win? Does it really matter that you play a little first? Seriously? So anyways words happen mainly his, telling me I was childish for playing that way and if I have the winning hand to just show it etc….. I said come on baby it’s just a game, can’t I play with you without you getting mad. Before it was over he was in my face yelling at me. I decided then and there he has to go. I been more than supported of him. I paid twice for his plane tickets here to my home. I have supported all our outings and bought him clothes, shoes, jackets, glasses etc….I have took care of him completely. And I am going to say this I will not do that again. The next man needs to be able to support himself! Now I did not ever, ever not even once say anything about it. Cause to be honest I knew he didn’t work and I was willing to deal with it and take care of him. I was willing it do it forever. But I am not going to put up with such behavior and a temper like his. He scares me when he acts like that and loses his temper. And I don’t know what to expect. So yeah I am sending him home. I am scared to tell him I am afraid. I hope it goes well I will let ya know. |
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1/28/2012 2:19 am |
Good luck, I hope it goes well
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 1/28/2012 3:27 am |
best wishes on this and it sounds as if he needs some alone time to work on himself anyway hopefully one day he will look back and realize the favor you did him not to mention you bettering your situation. The soul runs deep, even in shallow waters
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1/28/2012 4:03 am |
Good luck, no poetic wishes tonight. But do remember to play it safe xx analiese
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1/28/2012 5:15 am |
card games I too enjoy.... Self-respect is the corner-stone of virtues.
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1/28/2012 5:50 am |
Hopefully he will go without incident. Be careful and safe. Wouldn't hurt to have someone else around when this all happens.
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1/28/2012 6:26 am |
Good luck hun, hope everything goes well for you please let us know your ok and safe !!!!! So sorry to hear that your going through this
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 1/28/2012 6:50 am |
Be careful. Sounds like he could go either way when you do this. I understand about the supporting him but, as a man he shouldn't have expected you to be his meal ticket. Especially, so new in a relationship. I don't make much now but, I never assume someone is going to pay for me. Never have and never will.... Its hard out there and I know that but, there is fine line between letting someone be generous and taking advantage of them....
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1/28/2012 3:21 pm |
I hope it goes well for you. Being supported does not at all agree with a dominant personality, and I wonder that he accepted. It just never is good, it does rub the balance of the relationship. And imho so is it not safe at all to have a dom who loses his temper and cannot control himself, that can go so wrong in playing when you are helpless. Being scared: my ex-hb had a violent temper, and for telling him that I wanted a divorce I did choose a marriage counselling session, to have a third party present for my safety. Any friend/s you can have around when telling him ? take care.. "The Answer to the Great Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything is: ...42" -Douglas Adams
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2/5/2012 7:12 am |
Dont forget me. Not as a partner but as a friend. I wish you only the best and hope that things work out for you. A ship in Harbor is safe...but that's not what ships are built for.
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