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likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
3/21/2017 7:45 pm
so am I chopped fucking liver?


I'm honestly starting to think this.. well fuck me..

I tried to do the hook up and the guy kept me on the hook for three weeks.. finally I said are you interested in me or just play.. there is no room for omg I'll have to see if I have the weekend available bullshit..i think I'm worth more than this crap

either shit or get off the pot..jesus fucking christ already..

sorry to vent..but fuck me!... it pisses me off

likesmatureones 55M

3/21/2017 7:47 pm


wow what is the emoji beyond anger


camperdude_69 63M
599 posts
3/22/2017 12:46 am

nice


likesmatureones 55M

3/22/2017 4:07 am

well you have to understand that you honestly take a risk anytime you play with someone new...

Soo yeah you'd prefer that it not be a one and done....you actually would like to get it on the regular and be safe with a safe person ( especially true in this day and age of HIV/sex transmitted diseases etc).

So if the guy/girl goes into this with a half assed attitude then what is the point of actually meeting and greeting.
You don't email someone for like 3 weeks and then have them say " well I think I may be available this weekend..I guess I'm gonna have to check my schedule"..
Dude is retired! anything he has to do on the weekend could be done during the weekday..just saying.

It really makes you wonder about this person's motivation..were my emails just something for the spank bank.. did he ever have any intentions of getting together.. He never even mentioned getting together.. I had to ask him twice now.

I know I can't do a one time anymore if the person is half assing it...just too risky and not any fun for me..
And I honestly don't know I can do play just for play sake anymore.. the person has to be into me or else it isn't good


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
3/22/2017 4:20 am

Leo You Let People Game You- Nothing Has A Chance of Being REAL Based On Emails. Unless You Are Talking On The Phone You Can't Possibly Read The Person. My Only Interest Is Getting With Guys Who Want An Adult Friend. The Moment Some Guy I'm Interested In Acts Wishy Washy I Drop Him. Nobody Strings Me Along Frustrating Me And Affecting My Attitude. This Site Is Full Of Wannabe Swingers And BS Losers. Just Saying...


likesmatureones 55M

3/22/2017 4:45 am

I really don't think that is the case.. I usually have a two week rule period... I usually push off a meet and greet the first week I email anyone..
why?
Well by the time you exchange a few emails then it is like wed or thurs and then you feel a pressure to try to arrange something on the weekend.

I feel it is just rushed..and usually it is my dick that is doing the thinking at that point...I want to be sure that I actually want to be with/play with that person

By the second week of emailing I feel like I know this person better/ I can usually gauge their level of interest/alot of people aren't serious and can't openly communicated with you ..so some will just go away)

And yeah by the time the third week rolls around? the chances of us getting together are slim to none...unless your something special.

I'm not usually the type that gets strung along....I'm pretty good at picking up clues along the way


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
3/22/2017 5:08 am

My Experiance Is Guys Who Are Serious About Making Friends With Me Act Like It! Which Means Talking On The Telly ... If You Are Not Doing This After A Few Emails Nothing Will Ever Come Of It, Sugar!


likesmatureones 55M

3/22/2017 8:18 am

Well personally I'm not comfortable giving out the digits until I really know the other person . I mean the last thing I need is someone blowing up my phone or constantly texting me . But hey whatever works for you


drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
3/22/2017 3:33 pm

Leo, you are worth it !



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