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likesmatureones 55M
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3/29/2017 4:51 am
the rise of the Beta men


wow it almost sounds like a title straight of a bad 1960s scifi movie...

Before we go down this road I am not the type of guy that believes MEN must be uber macho assclowns to be men...I believe men come in all shapes and sizes.. But as a man that is into other men.. even I don't like beta guys.

So it makes me wonder why a woman would be attracted to one?

Beta men is a term you will see alot in the future...it is usually thrown around by men on sites like twitter.

I bring up this topic because i listen to alot of talk radio and this one program in kc features a "beta male"...who constantly talks about his soon to be wife who is the program director of the other local radio station..
and yeah it is pretty obvious that she is the strong independent type and he basically is the tag along male. She will wear the pants in that family.
He is jimmie olsen to her superman..er supergirl..

Now don't get beta male confused with submissive male...there are plenty of manly submissive men/plenty of strong submissive men in the lifestyle.

I'm talking more so of the flip flop wearing male/the guy that gets manny/peddys/ the guy that wears one of those postal european sorta man bags..and lives at starbucks

and no I'm not even talking about effeminate males/the transgendered or men that crossdress or transexuals..hell you can even throw in the "manscaping" metrosexual ( which are very cool people).. I mean literally wishy washy clinging to mommy's apron string males

I honestly thought the dynamics of this modern world would go all "hunger games"..
by this I thought we would under go a new cultural shift. Women/girls would become more like the young female action stars in these movies.. Strong would be the new sexy. Women/girls would be going to the gyms to get their core strength up to be more like kitniss
The male's response to this would be to be more spartan and shift even more up the scale.

Yet it seems like beta is becoming the new norm with the younger generation..
Men now wanna bitch about everything...men now go on social media and play highschool girl games like public shaming/men are now passive aggressive and will hurt someone's feelings..men are becoming the new wave of protesters etc.

Basically men are starting to become more like women..

so I was wondering if you actually find these men attractive? Does mr flip flop do anything for you....

I'm not saying a dude has to be a bronco buster and wear leather chaps....but a starbucks latte non fatte grande frap drinker in flip flops just sorta makes me want to run out and rip off that "feeling the burn" sticker from his prius

likesmatureones 55M

3/29/2017 4:53 am


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
3/29/2017 6:18 am

Well I DIG Men Being Macho Men- In Charge And Boss Of Their Women- Not Feminized Wimps (Like Me) And If Chicks Don't Like It They Can Stay Single Or Seek Out A Guy They Can Henpeck To Death..... BETA Males Did Not Settle This Country Or Fight Its Wars Nor Will They Save This Country In Current Times Either... So Women Need To Appreciate ALPHA Males And Get Their Heads Out Of The Clouds For Sure...!!!


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
3/29/2017 6:53 am

Have you heard of Antifa....crazy far left group against Facism, but in watching a video today, they are also extremely hateful towards men as well.

Seriously, is being good with each, regardless of male or female, transgender, just an ideal I have? Instead, we have haters on all side, regardless of sex or gender who are bent on hate.

Then you the politically correct morons who agree with extreme views, justify it, and call me close minded..really. I get what political correctness was made, but people have abused it, and now call it tolerance and being kind to underpriviledged, but the irony is what they were fighting against, is exactly what they have become.

I grew up in a loving home where my parents, not educated in North America, but Europe, and actually having grown with some rather conservative values always taught us self respect, dignity, and be a lady to use three daughters. While in some ways looking at the norms of their friends, they encouraged us to careers that were traditionally female, but my two sisters, naturally talented in science and math, and not because of raging feminist, went into fields of computer science and mathematics. I was the artsy one.

Nor am I saying I am against feminism. I stand with the original feminist from the turn of the century. I do not find myself having nothing to do with the modern feminism i see. I am sure there are balanced ones, but what is the news all too often, and yapping like mad dogs, are the ones I will never identify with..they are truly not any better than the those who claim to oppress them. It is always been amusing to me, is that while there are who are truly fighting for human rights, there is a group of priviledged imbeciles with imagined issues they are suffering, while they will not fight for women who are truly in dire need of protecting.

Anyway, i want a balanced approach, and respect for all, but not what i see in politics and movements these days. It seems the extremists are given air time, and those who take a fair approach, or are speaking out against it, are disparaged.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
3/29/2017 7:28 am

yes, you are welcome to take off my post. i made it more political i think.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


likesmatureones 55M

3/29/2017 7:41 am

Huh ? I don't censor and welcome different opinions. I only block people when they take personal shots


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
3/29/2017 9:11 am

LOL..what i meant was that i made a political post and it might not have been fitting exactly to your blog post..that is all.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
3/29/2017 12:13 pm

Well I Like What You Say Heartofmush- WE Don't Disagree All That Much, Sister!



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