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likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
4/29/2017 8:45 am
How men treat women


I honestly thought the younger generation was different. That somehow they were more self aware/more accepting/ they claim they are more pro women/pro gay rights/pro equality etc.

But I wonder if this really is just an act and it is the same ole same ole....and if it is.. then how can we change it.?

We've all heard the usual bullshit of the nice girl being attracted to the d bag dude who treats her like crap....we often wondered why is she with that guy?
Which in turn makes the nice guy think he has to act like the douche bag in order to get himself a girlfriend.

Now I will be the first to admit that yeah there are tons of men that are complete pigs and treat women like crap. So why did I assume this would all go away with the snowflake generation?

Here is an example....my roommates 18yr old has always been a "user" of people/a selfish prick...his dad is this way. ..
So I wasn't surprised when he moved out of this house ( we let him crash here until he could build up some money to buy a car/get a place of his own).
He spend like 3 months here and basically moved out because we wouldn't let him drink alcohol. And no I'm not talking about having a beer..the lil fuck was drinking more vodka than me ( and that is saying ALOT)
So at 18 this guy is smoking/drinking and using weed. ( not that there is anything wrong with weed.. but there is if all your money is going to buy it)

This guy has basically a fifth grade education ( I'm speculating.. he was the type that the teachers got tired of and sorta just passed along)...dropped out in his freshman year of highschool...

So he ends up going from job to job/working as a waiter...he got his driver's license at age 18 and wrecked his mom's car ( had to be totaled )...

So he moves into a house that he shares with like 6 other dudes...gets himself a girlfriend etc.

So yeah ladies a real catch....a 19 yr old dude with NO car/no money/works as a waiter /has a 5th grade education/lives with 6 other dudes....and oh yeah has smokes/drinks and gets high on weed..

I meet this girl once...she seems nice but too eager to please.. it's like she is HAPPY to be with him???? wtf...really ..

She is the type that lets him ( who has like 4 months driving under his belt and wrecked his mom's car) drive her car...
They came over the house to borrow " gardening tools"??? but my roommate said something about him wanting to borrow some food..
When asked where all his money goes?
She replied that she buys all the weed that they smoke..

Sooooo I was sorta shocked at this example.. I thought this younger generation was supposed to be filled with rainbow and unicorn farts. I thought they all wore pink hats and championed the rights of women

But it seems like it is an never ending cycle with some men...

Either they are sexually abusing/r word/emotionally abusing a woman...or they are plain out using them..

I honestly think part of it nature and the other part nurture... his older brother acts in a similar sorta fashion...much like the dad does.

Some may blame the mom, but can you really blame a single mom...yep jackass father wasn't even a part of their lives.

I tend to blame the males in this scenario...without a strong male role model, the sons learn how to emotionally manipulate women.
The Mom has to now play both roles.. both mom and dad.. she has to provide the emotional support and be the hammer at the same time.

So deep down I think the sons grow up secretly hating women/hating their moms for controlling their lives...so they use what they learned from their childhood and apply it to their relationship with other women...It's like the sons treat other women like shit in order to maintain control and be in charge.

Yet mentally and emotionally they never grew up/ they don't know how to interact with a grown woman.

So you get what basically know as a "player" or user of people.

So I wondered what can be done to stop this cycle?
I'm very "pro man" ..but even I believe there has to be some "education" on how a male is supposed to act in a society/ how he has to treat women etc...

Cause apparently these students aren't getting it at home

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likesmatureones 55M

4/29/2017 8:46 am


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
4/29/2017 8:54 am

Juvenile Delinquents I SEE Acting Up On College Campuses Like Berkley Are Selfishly Enlightened ONLY About Their Own Rights And Priviledges- Nobody Else Counts To These ADULT CHILDREN


celtdragn 53F
283 posts
4/29/2017 1:15 pm

Most learn by example. If there is no strong male example to show how should treat women,responsibility it can quickly just become a hormonal experience at looking at the world. Sadly with many women as well if they didn't have a male influence in it that was a strong caring role model with the constant you have to be a size 0 to be pretty or wanted. Thinking they should just be thankful that one gives her any regard who else could want them. I see this often in many women the low self esteem and males who play on it. As well as financial means they can get trapped with feeling there is no way out.

Hopefully in time they grow up and see have ones along the way who are there to help and show them there is so much more and beauty is in all shapes and sizes. And there is never anything wrong with seeking help support and love to build a better future. Rome was not made over night but it takes one step at a time to get there. Just my 2 cents.


VovimBaghie2030 55M  
261 posts
4/29/2017 2:44 pm

There are some good women but they are rare. Generally, women are nasty cunts and should be described and treated as such.


VovimBaghie2030 55M  
261 posts
4/29/2017 8:10 pm

Respect is EARNED, as is contempt.


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
4/30/2017 12:21 pm

The Way You Speak About Women You Have Earned CONTEMPT



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