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sophis_id 60F
16373 posts
7/22/2014 2:53 am

Grins. Yup. And still....once we give of ourselves and the other accepts...does he/she not have some responsibility? That bears tending and nurturing of not only oneself but of the other? Or is that just the submissive in me? I don't know miss Katie. I think whatever makes it work for us, me, you, him is just fine. I think he's right about the choice to be happy with someone. I believe that to my core.



Inner Fucking Peace: watch?v=92i5m3tV5XY


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
7/22/2014 3:48 am


Outstanding as well...

I'll be back here, too...

xoxos

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


shellfac1 62F
2293 posts
7/22/2014 3:55 am

I agree completely. Logically and realistically, we are all responsible for our own pleasure. We choose who inspires us and even can choose to give up power, including the power of choice and control of our body's reaction. One may revel in submission to another but ultimately, we all make that choice ourselves.

On the other hand...these are academic, reductionist thoughts. Such thinking (it's only the synapses of the involuntary nervous system flooded with endorphins from stimulation of the erogenous nerve endings) can spoil the pleasure by reducing everything to logic and fact. Sometimes it is nice to just enjoy the feeling of giving up control and not thinking at all.


Levona 59F
127 posts
7/22/2014 10:22 am

How very true.....and how very well put...
There should be bulbs lighting up all over the place by now...

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A woman cannot help who it is she finds strong enough to compel her to drop to her knees....no more than she can help not feeling the compulsion to do so for others.


McGripper 54M

7/22/2014 3:49 pm

I do admire how your team operates.

The opinions and understanding portrayed in my blog are mainly unfounded, misguided or wrong.


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
7/26/2014 2:58 pm

    Quoting sophis_id:
    Grins. Yup. And still....once we give of ourselves and the other accepts...does he/she not have some responsibility? That bears tending and nurturing of not only oneself but of the other? Or is that just the submissive in me? I don't know miss Katie. I think whatever makes it work for us, me, you, him is just fine. I think he's right about the choice to be happy with someone. I believe that to my core.
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"once we give of ourselves and the other accepts...does he/she not have some responsibility? That bears tending and nurturing of not only oneself but of the other? "


Some.
SOME.

I suppose I could have entitled my post, "Whose PRIMARY job is it to 'Make' you feel good anyway" to be clearer.

I think I took for granted that most pleasures shared are co-created...mutually dependent, just ~ I didn't write it.

Why could that have made a difference> Because there may have been no urge to say so...or to speak to teh importance of nurturing one another in teh scheme of things...something I highly recommend

The consensus is that when it comes to our emotions, how we feel, even how, when or if we orgasm, WE ourselves have the ultimate control and say so. There might be exceptions, just as I say, teh consensus says no,.
It was from that I wrote from.

And we're still same-paging.

BD~
P
xoxos

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
7/26/2014 3:09 pm

    Quoting shellfac1:
    I agree completely. Logically and realistically, we are all responsible for our own pleasure. We choose who inspires us and even can choose to give up power, including the power of choice and control of our body's reaction. One may revel in submission to another but ultimately, we all make that choice ourselves.

    On the other hand...these are academic, reductionist thoughts. Such thinking (it's only the synapses of the involuntary nervous system flooded with endorphins from stimulation of the erogenous nerve endings) can spoil the pleasure by reducing everything to logic and fact. Sometimes it is nice to just enjoy the feeling of giving up control and not thinking at all.
I'm.................... missing the reductionism in your agreement with Katie Shell, (but that's nothing new ) the academia (psychology) ?fair enuff.

I see it as non-reductionism -as emergence, instead. We become waht we behold, waht we co-imagine./create. Waht we become is more than the sum of the processes from which it emerges. Is that waht you're saying? If so, yeah...we're same paging.

I - don't think about your other hand unless prompted. I'm ll over your logic n realism,

Depth.
BD~
p
xoxos

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
7/26/2014 3:11 pm

    Quoting  :

What He wanted is for me to realize that I have the power within myself to make the choices and that He is NOT the reason I make them

Nods.
Too bad I didn't ask HIM to guest-post my original blog.
Eloquence & clarity is enviable.


xx

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
7/26/2014 3:19 pm

Such scholarship.
Such communicative resonance.

Well damn done.

YTB
BD~
P
xx

PA and I'm thinkning..."James, do you appreciate this topic and these posts/views ...katie's in particular ... because Spike happens to share your view?"

Mm.

Could be,
Could be not.

What I'm certain of is my giddy love for and serenity felt when I notice adherence to syllogistic thought (whether it supports OR dismantles my original view), what I respond to best I think.

Thanks again.

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace



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