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maletramp 64M
2092 posts
9/23/2014 2:16 pm

Seems the male in chastity can answer your questions quite easily. But it does seem rare to hear of the female equivalent. And I suspect their experience is likely different from the male. Why not experiment? Simply ask your Dom to invoke the privilege. I'd bet you have quite an interesting blog post six weeks from now, should you abstain. Perhaps more interestingly, you find a male sub who is willing to go into 6 weeks with you.


benoite 104F
6238 posts
9/23/2014 2:42 pm

I wrote a post on this topic years ago (in German, I'm afraid) because I didn't understand the concept of orgasm denial either.
I'm a "the more i get the more I want"-type.
I know from experirience that I start to "forget" about sex and climax in times of chasity
no matter for which reason I had to live that way.
So, if G denied me (which he doesn't), I'd get used to it soon.
And I have talked to quite a few women who agreed with me.
From what I understand this is different for men. When denied for some time they seem to feel the way I do when "edging" (though I didn't know the expression until I read your post I understood immediately what you were talking about because G loves to keep me there and I LOVE his expertness in doing it)
Maybe Doms with little imagination try this, judging women by their own standards.
Looking forward to other statements, B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


TheBargee 68M
16314 posts
9/23/2014 3:06 pm

Ah ha! Coffe denial! So he really is a mean mother!


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
9/23/2014 7:43 pm

    Quoting  :

Interesting response Faith.. I'd love to hear your views on "milking" (especially your observations if you've used that technique in your power rush.)


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
9/24/2014 12:43 am

    Quoting  :

Faith.. I'm curious if you've read any of the posts of a woman named Sarah Jameson.. She writes extensively on the topic. She seems knowledgeable yet perhaps a bit "clinical". Not sure how I got on her mailing list, but if you're interested I'm sure I can figure out a way to get you her contact info.


Doc_Sonar 66M
24588 posts
10/7/2014 2:12 pm

Oh He keeps me right on the edge a lot but never denies me. He loves when I go BOOM, He tells me so.

I LOVE watching you... I think I shall book a ringside seat.. and just watch you shatter.. over and over and over again..."


Mm.
Liking this...edging v. denial.


Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24588 posts
12/23/2014 4:17 am

I came back to read...

Oh well.


And oh, orgasm denial is like - a NO for me. I'm an Un_apologetic FemOrg addict.

Just...what happens leading up to, during annnd after the postponements are over seems........................
beyond my/our ability to describe...

Lovely Katie-response descriptions you offer

xx

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace



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