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eroticallyincldn 70F
1635 posts
9/28/2014 6:28 am

well my friend ..I would miss you terribly..your words...your beautifully expressive face ...and your strength...

He is like a terrorist and he is enjoying your anger and fear ...and he will get his way if you leave...with a stroke of a finger you can ban him from your life...

Don't let him win..but i will support you in whatever you decide...because my dear girl you are so worthwhile!


Maleficent4U 52F
116 posts
9/28/2014 1:03 pm

I don't blog, just don't have that artistic creativity, okay, yea right, nerves may have A LOT to do with it!!!!

I have popped in on your blogs and you're inspirational in your writings. Do not allow the negativity/nasty/judgmental people here control whether you stay or go. Only go if you feel it's time and for all the right reasons. Leaving just gives them power in which they don't deserve.

Tell them to "piss-off" and find some other fool to TRY their D/M wannabe self on, you just aren't that gal and then block them. It's what you love to do from all I have read, don't allow them to take that power/gift from you.

I have seen plenty of these people here and they seem to disappear quickly and yes, there are always more to replace them, but hey..... one arrogant dick head at a time!!"


AC_Wright 58F
323 posts
9/28/2014 3:55 pm

YOU have the power when dealing with men like that.

The nature of the game forces us to realize that there are a lot of males out there whom the internet has given the gift of anonymity. They're lonely, frustrated—some of them are mentally damaged from a lifetime of being the mistakes they are.

When one of them writes to you here, there's really not that much you can say about the event because, by writing the shit they write to you, they assume they have the power in your interaction, but they don't have it, they arrogate it.

The truth is, unlike when facing a man in person with muscles, or a knife or a gun in an alleyway your helplessness is an illusion.

YOU have the power when dealing with them.

In a letter, you have the power of the last word. "Thanks for the cock-pick, send me another when you've grown one of at least average size. You're blocked."

YOU have the power to Report them to the management if they say anything involving violence.

YOU have the power to ridicule them in public and cut loose on them the way we aren't even supposed to.

And last, and best of all, you have the secret truth of the sexes on your side in that it's all up to you. You're a woman, a female adult, the fact that someone sees fit to waste his one chance to make a favorable impression on you in writing one of those generic "I'm going to drag you into an alleyway and 'fill-in-the-blank and then you'll like it" messages is disturbed adolescent in his forties.

A man who would do that kind of thing is less useful than a submissive: he is twisted useless—a stunted eunuch. You shouldn't let one of them bother you.

YOU have all the power when dealing with them.

Schrille Schlampen aller Länder, vereinigt euch! Ihr habt nichts zu verlieren als euren Kontakt mit Versagern!


kb1971 58M

9/28/2014 5:47 pm

There is strength in numbers, and from what I read from others that day you had support. It felt like a pack was coming to the aid of one of their own. Search out the pack when you need it, and let us take a nice big chunk out of them. You get first dibs.

"Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do, and they will suprise you with their ingenuity."~ Gen. George Patton


McGripper 54M

9/29/2014 7:10 am

Your one of the brighter aspects of this site.
Many of us us just appreciate you being here sharing what you choose.
Hopefully your blogging continues. Don't let the creeps grind you down!

The opinions and understanding portrayed in my blog are mainly unfounded, misguided or wrong.


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
9/29/2014 7:08 pm

There is ugliness, Katie. Ralph wrote something in a post how to deal with the negativity, and there I am Tam did as well.

Do not let it get to you. Stick to your guns, okay?

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


WoodEyeLuv 61M  
102 posts
9/30/2014 12:43 am

I always hate to see this type of message. This should be a place of safe exploration, but it is too often a place of simply hate. Do first what you need for yourself. Try not to empower the haters. Delete, delete, delete is the way. They wish for simply a reaction to feed their sorry lives. Erase them instead if you can.


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
10/7/2014 8:03 pm

...smh...

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


tbird1970 65M
135 posts
10/21/2014 3:02 pm

Take care of your self ( u come first ) relax and enjoy life



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