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eroticallyincldn 70F
1636 posts
9/28/2014 6:28 am

well my friend ..I would miss you terribly..your words...your beautifully expressive face ...and your strength...

He is like a terrorist and he is enjoying your anger and fear ...and he will get his way if you leave...with a stroke of a finger you can ban him from your life...

Don't let him win..but i will support you in whatever you decide...because my dear girl you are so worthwhile!


MissyB2000 48F
482 posts
9/28/2014 6:36 am

Haters are gonna hate... and they are not happy unless they are spreading around their brand of manure.... You need to be happy, and I would really miss your blog. I watch several but I always save yours for last because it is my favorite. You make me believe that happiness and the wonder in a relationship is possible, which is difficult when you live in the US and he lives across the pond ( I don't have the ability at this time, to make the move as you did) I used to deal with that kind of crap here also but I just look at them and either don't read them or read them and then put them in the iggy pile where they belong. I refuse to let some damm coward (knob jockey) chase me away with their negativity. I have seen so many people quit this place because of the negative crap a few "special" people spew and it is sad. I don't want to lose you here for my own selfish reasons, but that being said, I want you to be happy and content. you should have that in your world with Spike and in your world here. Please consider carefully and do what your heart tells you, but know that you have more people who care and watch than stupid haters.


Maleficent4U 52F
116 posts
9/28/2014 1:03 pm

I don't blog, just don't have that artistic creativity, okay, yea right, nerves may have A LOT to do with it!!!!

I have popped in on your blogs and you're inspirational in your writings. Do not allow the negativity/nasty/judgmental people here control whether you stay or go. Only go if you feel it's time and for all the right reasons. Leaving just gives them power in which they don't deserve.

Tell them to "piss-off" and find some other fool to TRY their D/M wannabe self on, you just aren't that gal and then block them. It's what you love to do from all I have read, don't allow them to take that power/gift from you.

I have seen plenty of these people here and they seem to disappear quickly and yes, there are always more to replace them, but hey..... one arrogant dick head at a time!!"


kb1971 58M

9/28/2014 5:47 pm

There is strength in numbers, and from what I read from others that day you had support. It felt like a pack was coming to the aid of one of their own. Search out the pack when you need it, and let us take a nice big chunk out of them. You get first dibs.

"Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do, and they will suprise you with their ingenuity."~ Gen. George Patton


McGripper 54M

9/29/2014 7:10 am

Your one of the brighter aspects of this site.
Many of us us just appreciate you being here sharing what you choose.
Hopefully your blogging continues. Don't let the creeps grind you down!

The opinions and understanding portrayed in my blog are mainly unfounded, misguided or wrong.


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
9/29/2014 7:08 pm

There is ugliness, Katie. Ralph wrote something in a post how to deal with the negativity, and there I am Tam did as well.

Do not let it get to you. Stick to your guns, okay?

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


WoodEyeLuv 61M  
102 posts
9/30/2014 12:43 am

I always hate to see this type of message. This should be a place of safe exploration, but it is too often a place of simply hate. Do first what you need for yourself. Try not to empower the haters. Delete, delete, delete is the way. They wish for simply a reaction to feed their sorry lives. Erase them instead if you can.


Doc_Sonar 66M
24588 posts
10/7/2014 8:03 pm

...smh...

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


tbird1970 65M
135 posts
10/21/2014 3:02 pm

Take care of your self ( u come first ) relax and enjoy life



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