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VirgoGirl78 45F
1272 posts
8/17/2015 3:36 am

The online Dom I was involved with was strong believer in punishment and was almost the end of us before we began. As we were online only and never met, I was expected to inflict the punishment on myself with no real explanation of what I had done that was warranting the punishment. Our first play session became one that also involved punishment so I was pretty hesitant to play again.
We all need to learn along this path but needs to be done with love - not in a way that could permanently hurt the person (physically or emotionally).


McGripper 54M

8/17/2015 4:45 am

Yeah!

The opinions and understanding portrayed in my blog are mainly unfounded, misguided or wrong.


Hard2LoveNurse 66F
9492 posts
8/17/2015 9:43 am

I have never been a believer of punishment, either. I feel discipline is important (to train by instruction and exercise).
We are all consenting adults, therefore we talk things through when we have issues.


"Seeking soul-mate!! Seduce my mind and you can have my body, touch my soul and I’m yours forever! "


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
8/17/2015 2:52 pm

I am with you on this one too! I would never inflict physical pain on children. There are so many other methods to get one's message across. With my Dominant he might say 'I will punish you when we get home' if I have been cheeky in a restaurant but it is all a game and fun (however seriously said). We have never played when angry.


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
8/17/2015 2:54 pm

The strangest thing is that we have actually never been properly angry with each other yet... There has just not been reason for it. As if things just jell. Hope I haven't jinxed it


Levona 59F
127 posts
8/23/2015 12:15 am

There are times when your actions will have repercussions, there is no doubt about that, times when some measure of correction/discipline may be called for but....
Physical punsiment is something that hurts....at the time...but you soon get over it... silence on the other hand.... having someone look at you and simply say..." I am really disappointed in you".... then walk away and leave you in silence....be it an hour, a day or a week... to be ignored...to be nothing .... to be alone with your thoughts and regrets and to hear that disappointment echo over and over again in your mind.... that is a lesson not forgotten and it hurts more than anything else in my book.

A woman cannot help who it is she finds strong enough to compel her to drop to her knees....no more than she can help not feeling the compulsion to do so for others.



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