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TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
9/21/2015 1:31 pm

I've read several desperately sad blogs here over the years from guys passing on their bitter experiences of having fallen (in both senses) for a ``domme demanding money. I even went so far as to applaud one guy for his bravery, exposing himself to ridicule in order to save other potential victims the embarrassment (and penury) he had suffered.

Maybe some people do get a genuine kick from being fleeced but given that we are all getting fleeced all the time by financial institutions of one sort or another, it seems a shame that some need to get more!

Personally speaking, if there is a financial transaction involved then it falls into an entirely new category. I think the relationship is called Whores and Johns!


sophis_id 60F
16373 posts
9/21/2015 2:48 pm

This doesn't just happen to men BTW. Just saying.



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tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
9/21/2015 5:09 pm

I am clearly doing something wrong... Should I be asking for money and not paying??


sophis_id 60F
16373 posts
9/21/2015 5:56 pm

    Quoting sophis_id:
    This doesn't just happen to men BTW. Just saying.
Financial Domination (or just taking advantage) is gender neutral. I've known of, and read of, people of both genders that are blindsided by this sort of behavior. I've been asked to help pay their rent. Buy their food. Purchase prescriptions. Get them out of a jam. I let one borrow (rolls my eyes - I KNEW!! I did!!) $200 bucks once to fly to get a job. I'd been 'friends'for over a year with this man and his submissive. The next week they asked for $500. I said no. That person was ever a dominant in my head again and strangely enough, the friendship dried up. Huh. Once shame on you...twice shame on me.



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Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
10/13/2015 3:40 pm

Undecided.
I just don't enough about it, and I confess, I haven't probed very deeply, either.

That said, it sorta' strikes me as a 'No.'

*Shrugging. *



Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace



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