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Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
4/16/2014 7:22 pm

Hi gg!

Thanks so much for wanting to join and adding your perspectives into the mix.

You, like me, did this (I am looking forward to reading other posts in this challenge, I purposely avoided reading any before I put my thoughts down...) for teh same reason.

And as with, as with some others,

"Something that has rung true in each every debate is that I can only speak for myself and not all...

The argument that has taken precedent for me is whether it is a question of trust or comfort that SEEMS to allow me to trust men sooner and easier (underlinings, mine. - Doc). I am simply more comfortable with men then women. I always have been."

As V says in her comment, "a differentiation between comfort and trust...does make a new kind of sense..."


And because my curiosity has no cure, no need to be surprised if I ask you someday for these variations on this query that you didn't post ("...have had some time with this query and I think I answered it differently a few times..... or vacillated between a couple...)

I love your response, love them all, and I like the thought and time you put into it baby.

Thank you!

YMLO
BD~
P
xoxos

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
4/16/2014 7:26 pm

    Quoting  :

Mm... intelligent self-perusal and thoughtfulness is a universal turn-on, I think,
Maybe YOU could 'persuade' her to edge towards sharing her un-posted thoughts and be comfortable doing so?


Yeah..
Sure it's doable.


BD~
P
xoxos

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace



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