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Family of three FFm by gamarriedcouple 48M/48F is a blog about male chastity ... a bit of exaggeration there but gives you an idea about some aspects,,, be good M
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Hi Hot.. You’re asking all the right questions. I’m not an expert but have read quite a bit about this topic. You’ll find lots of answers by browsing the site here, and something you might consider is finding another FemDom couple, as I have noticed many of the Dommes here talk about having learned much from such relationships. There is a site on the topic, by a woman named Sarah Jameson. She will email you on the topic. Since I can’t post a link here, try googling “Sarah Jameson Male Chastity Blog” .. you should find her site quite easily. Pretty much everything I say here, I probably read there. #1: There is a wide variety of models. The CB series seem to get lots of attention. I’m not aware of anyone have a “fitting room” but it wouldn’t surprise me if some kink convention doesn’t offer such. Barring that, you’ll be amazed at how many models are offered at EBAY. The costs can be quite reasonable there, priced in the $20 to $40 range, but some of the higher end devices are $200 and up. #2: Most devices can be worn under clothing and not be noticed. #3: Some of the devices have “inserts” for the urethra. If you go that route, you need to be highly sensitive to keeping it clean and slowly train him for wearing it for extended purposes. Study up on the hygiene issues, as they can cause infections. This is true of ALL devices. He will need to clean it daily. But extended wear is quite common, and is actually the benefit of this training device. The longer he is in it, the happier you will be with his demeanor. Of course, that is a general statement. I am presuming this is something he wants as much as you do. The most knowledgeable woman I know about chastity devices believes she can train any man to do anything, if she can get him into a chastity device. You’ll want to make sure he is milked. I believe weekly is appropriate, yet you see some claim every two weeks or once a month is enough. That seems unreasonably long to me. I recently read that if you take a man’s age, subtract 7, and then divide the result by 4, you have the number of days that he should go between orgasms. But that was the minimum between orgasms. So that would be about 14 days for your husband. It is very important that you milk him, and not allow orgasms if you’re using this to train his behavior. So, if you have him clean it daily, and you milk him routinely, there should be no medical drawbacks. But, if you are using an insert, make sure you are extremely careful in sterilizing it before you insert it. And be very cautious toward how long the insert is in. Build up very slowly. #4: Some devices can be cleaned while worn. In those cases, the device can be worn in perpetuity. #5: Hygiene really is not a problem, provided you clean it daily. It has to be done routinely though. #6: One myth is that you can’t get an erection while wearing one. The device it self will limit the physical size of his cock when he is aroused. But for instance, a “bird cage” can cut into him. Some have spikes for the more sadistic Domme, and arousal is met instantly with piercing. The only thing that actually stops the erection is the pain of the device. So, the reaction to be erect still begins. The pain of the device’s constraints competes with the sexual arousal and, depending on the male, he might keep getting harder or softer. If his reaction is to keep getting harder, he might get cuts. You definitely want to understand your husband’s reaction, and how you want the device to handle that. Lots of small devices are used as the male is so restricted in them that the constraints prevent the erection from ever getting too far along. He can pee using the vast majority of devices, though he will need to sit down in most of them. If air travel is important, you’ll need a plastic cage and plastic lock, unless the humiliation of a metal cage is a desire of yours. I’ve never seen one that he is able to fuck while wearing. But with that one caveat, he can pretty much “do” everything else. And frankly, the great advantage of a chastity device, is most women discover their chaste maie is suddenly able to do so many things he always refused and never could do before. #7: Sarah Jameson does a great job explaining the psyche of the chaste male. The longer he is in it, the more both of you will enjoy it. He comes to enjoy his service to you in a way he never understood before. A peace comes over him, upon his acceptance of the condition. He in many ways will be more sexually attentive and yet he begins to accept “his fate”. And one thing I will mention: You should look into this for YOU and your husband. You’ll discover in many ways you are as big a winner from this activity, as he is.
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