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lastguymn 56M

8/1/2014 12:24 am

As a Dom (or at least an aspiring one), I think I feel defeated and weak almost as often as I feel victorious and strong. But it does not scare me. It's a part of simply being human, and I don't pretend to be anything but human.

I can't relate to your ex-master. I think a constant embodiment of appearing invincible would not only be exhausting, but it would also be an inauthentic caricature of a Dom. We all experience the natural flow that you speak of, and denying it or hiding from it seems very fruitless to me. Some seem to think that the strength in a D/s relationship is all one-sided, but I think healthy relationships require that both are strong for each another when it's needed.


~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


xntrick 59M
2927 posts
8/1/2014 12:46 am

When I do feel weak, I try to get rid of that feeling asap, not very enjoyable to me.


jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
8/3/2014 4:21 pm

Mary

At times , I have self-doubts but then I try to think of my successes....

YOU have been VERY successful in so many things


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


LordRebel 69M
823 posts
8/24/2014 8:07 am

Hi. Late as always to the conversation but I don't come out here often these days. If you read my blog (such as it is) One of my last and most responded to posts was all about my loneliness and vulnerability. My not finding my place and certainly not my special other. So that answers that in general. But if you meant only while being in a Dom role well there is a time to let your sub see you as you are. to know you better should only endear you to her. To be yourself even in the bad times and be ok with it...that should show a strength in itself that will work well in the trust area of the D/s relationship.

signed, Lonely, Vulnerable Rebel



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