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DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
9/17/2014 4:04 am

Your need to just "be" to find a place to relax, to be playful and such is not uncommon. I don;t know if I can express what the dynamic does for me all that well. I kind of just am and the daddy dom/daughter dynamic kind of entails how I am.

Like you, it actually relaxes me. I do know that I like to guide, help develop, plan, act as the protector , be the shoulder you can lean on, be devil;s advocate, to bring joy, all those things a daddy does with a child. It is my observation that most of the long term relationship I know have those elements, no matter if they claim the dd/d dynamic.

I have been involved with those who will drop back into a mind space where they are the little girl. Playing with dolls, playing board games, and such a little girl woudl do. I have given them that space if they desired such to clear thier minds of the stress of day to day life. To me it is no different than adults playing sports, getting involved in any hobby or activity that gives they satisfaction.

I also, have a sense of creativity in helping that woman develop. It is like being creative in cooking. I enjoy the process of cooking and of course the end result is enjoyed.

Submissives who go into the lil girl mode also seem more devoted and allow you to guide them. They so want to trust and seem to give it more freely when they are in this mode.

I also find that women who go into the lil girl mode are looking for rules, parameters and ritual ls that are expected to be followed. They have such rules in business, which are not always fair or for that matter followed by those enforcing them.A daddy plays fair (in theory) with the ones in his charge.

There is an element I can't put my finger on that makes it compelling. I do know it is at least for me, not an interest in little girls. Because the dynamic defines age. it does not require one be significantly younger, act or look like a lil girl. I know for some it does.

Bottom line, the dominant who appreciates and accept this dynamic gets a submissive that likes him and he her. They have to have enough common ground in day to day life as a basis for the relationship in the first place.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


mtadventures4u 66M  
190 posts
9/17/2014 7:58 am

Are sanctuary. Not that we are escaping the realities of day to day. We all need a safe place to be areselves. Sure the d/s relationship looks at sexuality outside the box. For some it is their dark side, evil, or taboo. I do not judge unless it is to ruin or hurt lastingly physically or emotionally for one person's own gains. Are sanctuary is a place to; be open without fear of being judge, laugh, flirt, seduce, tease, appreciate, admire, be honest, trust, romance, and simply enjoy the riches of life and each other. A time out. A moment to spruce up the day as a relationship. An opportunity to be adventurous, creative, and imaginative. No matter the dynamics of how the d/s plays out be it; daddy dom, master/slave, and so forth. It has to be a consensual journey that rewards and enriches each. Daddy dom would in return receive a lover of the Beringer Brothers. No, no !!! It would be more then this....an amazing young lady. An indescribable treasure.



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