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cuzisaid 53F  
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8/30/2014 7:57 pm

 I ended up doing the same mentor route for my own benefit. Luckily there are two real time groups in my area where that was an option, becasue it took a variety of people with their own styles for me to learn different things to my tastes and understanding.

I dont know that Id ever call you a douchebag hon, lol you seem pretty sweet, but yeah being married is a big issue. You cant be available to a new partner most times day or night, you cant offer a future and the fear of abandonment or even worse, attachment are equally off putting to a potential partner.

Can I ask you...... have you looked at a day planner or outlook mail hour per hour scheduling program to figure out exactly how much interaction time per week or month you have available to get to know and be involved with anyone?

It has been my experience that most dont do that and then cant understand why they cant fit 8 hr fantasy scenes into 20 minutes every other week.

Figure out the time you have and THEN adapt your search to fit in that.
Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black.
~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~



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