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Temptmered 63F
33 posts
4/24/2015 1:57 pm
THE BEACON


The one thing i have always been able to depend on with a Dominant man is His ability to man up in any and every situation. That voice and His demeanor can turn me on so fast i can feel myself dripping down my thighs. Depend on...good phrase. Comforting. He does not have to be physically attractive, youthful, or wealthy...He just has to man up when it is called for. A Dominant man will not use this "superpower" just any time He feels like it or all the time simply because He can. He is very discerning in the use of this "superpower". It is a very rare thing to find. i am still searching.
Sadly, i have only met a few in my life time. Those that call themselves Dominant men but only want to play online behind their wives' backs or those that message for weeks then simply disappear, cause their wives' caught them must tell people they are Dominant or no one would know. Profiles are just useless and self-serving. We slaves/subs can identify this superpower blindfolded or even through the airwaves. It issues a beacon to our souls and draws us nearer without the Dominant man even trying or announcing that they are a Dominant. It is a quality that cannot be explained or defined, but put a hundred Dominants in a room with a hundred slaves/subs and watch which ones draw the most slaves/subs to them with just their presence. How does this happen? No one knows and many men have tried to copy it without success. The pretenders are everywhere and over-taking this lifestyle in order to have a taste of it. i have become so tired of finding a Dominant man only to find He owns all He has been seeking and has no need of me. The one thing about slaves/subs is...we need to be needed first and foremost. The search has been long and my patience has improved as i witnessed the influx of wannabe's. To choose a pretender is the most devastating and heartbreaking thing i have ever done here. It undermined my submissive nature with doubts of myself and simply pissed me off and got me hurt. But my desire sometimes overtook my common sense. Those were back in the early days when i had yet to hear the call of the beacon. Now i only recognize that call and no others which is such a relief that i am almost (almost-not quite) at peace with never finding One that needs me. i no longer blame my submission or attributes or flaws because i understand now how very rare it is to meet a Dominant man.
A Dominant man will not lead me on then leave without manning up. He will simply say the words He knows i need to hear so that i am not left with doubts of my self-worth. A Dominant man never leaves even an unwanted or unneeded sub/slave broken and in pain. It is not in their nature. I am not even sure they are capable of such an act.
Pretenders, you should give up now because all slaves/subs that have been here awhile recognize the beacon and you do not have one. i cannot wish you well as i am offended with how you have reduced our lifestyle from real to pretend. It saddens me to see and i wish you would all just leave now.

secretdesire68 58F
20 posts
4/24/2015 2:45 pm

Very well said Tempt



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